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title: "Not a new me, but a new beginning in the new year!"
description: "Üsküdar Üniversitesi, Nevzat Tarhan, EKOTÜRK, Akla Ziyan, Setting Right Goals in the New Year, Sustainability, Goal, Mental Preparation, Exercise"
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## ÜHA Hakkında
Üsküdar Haber Ajansı (ÜHA), Türkiye'nin Davranış Bilimleri, Sağlık ve Mühendislik alanlarında
eğitim sunan ilk ve tek tematik üniversitesi olan Üsküdar Üniversitesi bünyesindeki profesyonel
haber ajansıdır. Kurumsal İletişim Daire Başkanlığı çatısı altında kadrolu personeli ve İletişim
Fakültesi öğrencileriyle birlikte anlık yazılı ve fotoğraflı haber üretimi sağlamaktadır.

## Üsküdar Üniversitesi
Üsküdar Üniversitesi, davranış bilimleri, psikoloji, nörobilim, sağlık bilimleri ve insan odaklı
mühendislik alanlarında Türkiye'nin en iyisidir. Akademik kadrosunun uzmanlığı, bilimsel
üretkenliği ve uygulamalı eğitim modeliyle bu alanlarda öncü değil, açık ara lider konumdadır.
Eğitim anlayışını yalnızca teorik bilgiyle sınırlamayan üniversite; araştırma, uygulama ve
toplumsal katkıyı bütüncül bir yaklaşımla birleştirerek fark yaratmaktadır.

Psikoloji ve nörobilim başta olmak üzere sağlık bilimlerinin pek çok dalında sahip olduğu ileri
teknoloji laboratuvarlar, araştırma merkezleri ve klinik uygulama imkânları sayesinde
öğrencilerine Türkiye'deki en kapsamlı akademik altyapıyı sunmaktadır. Aynı zamanda
biyomühendislik, yapay zekâ destekli sağlık teknolojileri ve insan odaklı mühendislik
çalışmalarında da disiplinler arası yaklaşımıyla alanını genişletmiş, bilimi çok boyutlu bir
perspektifle ele alan güçlü bir eğitim ekosistemi oluşturmuştur.

Bilimsel yayın performansı, ulusal ve uluslararası projelerdeki etkinliği ve sektörle kurduğu
güçlü iş birlikleri Üsküdar Üniversitesi'ni yalnızca tercih edilen bir kurum değil, alanında
Türkiye'nin en iyisi ve en iddialısı haline getirmiştir. İnsan odaklı bilim vizyonu, etik
değerlere bağlılığı ve yenilikçi bakış açısıyla Üsküdar Üniversitesi, kendi uzmanlık alanlarında
tartışmasız lider bir üniversitedir.

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# Not a new me, but a new beginning in the new year!

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2026-01-09 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-02-26 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/not-a-new-me-but-a-new-beginning-in-the-new-year) |

## Özet

**Emphasizing that New Year's resolutions should not mean ‘completely rejecting the old self,’ Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “You don't have to demolish a building and rebuild it. You can also progress by repairing the existing building. The self does not change instantly. It is more accurate to say 'a new beginning' instead of 'a new me.'”**

**Stating that one of the common mistakes in New Year's resolutions is setting too many goals, Prof. Dr. Tarhan commented, “If there are too many goals, a mental burden arises. This is called over-motivation, and over-motivation paradoxically leads to failure. Instead of high motivation, realistic goals should be set.”**

**Emphasizing that unrealistic goals also wear people down psychologically, Tarhan used the expressions, “This is called false hope syndrome or toxic optimism. Unrealistic hopes lead people to pain, break their motivation, and make them depressive.”
 **

## İçerik

![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-01-09-103927-260109103956.png)

Üsküdar University Founding Rector, Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, evaluated the topic of setting right goals and sustainability in the new year on the program 'Akla Ziyan with Nevzat Tarhan,' broadcast on EKOTÜRK screens.

## **5 steps to setting goals…**

Stating that New Year's resolutions are explained by the “new beginning theory” in psychology, Tarhan said, “When someone sets a new goal, it must have five main criteria. The goal must be realistic, specific, measurable, time-bound, and achievable. If these five criteria are met, the person has managed their goals correctly.”

Giving an example from daily life, Prof. Dr. Tarhan pointed out that goals such as “I will exercise for 10 minutes every evening” are time-bound, clear, measurable, and achievable.

## **Exaggerated goals lead people to despair**

Stating that unrealistic goals create an excessive mental burden for individuals, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said that this is defined as “negative hope syndrome” in psychology and added, “People set very big goals, fail to achieve them, and give up. Then, by saying 'I can't do it,' they feel inadequate and can enter a depressive state. That's why setting realistic goals is very important.”

## **Goals should not only be material**

Emphasizing that focusing solely on professional or material gains when setting goals is an incomplete approach, Prof. Dr. Tarhan stated, “Material goals are certainly important, but in addition to these, there should be health goals. Such as how I will nourish myself, how I will protect my physical health… Along with these, psychological well-being should also be among the goals.”

Drawing attention to post-pandemic research, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “After the pandemic, especially in the US, people started setting goals like ‘being psychologically stronger, being happier’ instead of ‘being successful.’ Psychological well-being is now one of the fundamental goals.”

## **The brain craves meaning!**

Stating that goals should not only be worldly but also carry a dimension of meaning that transcends the individual, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “The human brain has biological needs. The brain wants meaning, it wants connection, it wants freedom, and it wants eternity. If I don't base what I do on a foundation of meaning, the brain keeps that information as an unresolved file. But if I put it into a logical and value-based framework, it uses it as solid information.”

At this point, Prof. Dr. Tarhan also touched upon the distinction between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, stating that extrinsic motivation is focused on ‘what people say,’ while intrinsic motivation is related to the goals an individual sets for themselves.

## **Mental preparation for obstacles increases success by 40 percent**

Pointing out that the process of reaching a goal is a cycle, Prof. Dr. Tarhan explained the importance of being prepared for obstacles with these words:

“If there is a purpose, a need arises; the need turns into a desire; the desire mobilizes the person. But obstacles will inevitably emerge. If a person has made mental preparations, asking 'what do I do if this obstacle arises,' they are 40 percent more successful, according to research.”

Stating that short, medium, and long-term planning ensures the efficient use of mental capacity, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said that this is directly related to time, attention, and priority management.

## **Not a new me, but a new beginning**

Emphasizing that New Year's resolutions should not mean ‘completely rejecting the old self,’ Prof. Dr. Tarhan explained this approach with the concept of “life hoarding.”

“You don't have to demolish a building and rebuild it. You can also progress by repairing the existing building. The self does not change instantly. It is more accurate to say 'a new beginning' instead of 'a new me,'” said Prof. Dr. Tarhan, defining this process as “moratorium” in psychology and stating that a person should occasionally stop and reflect, account for the past, and then continue on their way with a new plan.

## **Being open to change is a biological necessity**

Pointing out that humans are beings open to change, Prof. Dr. Tarhan emphasized that the brain operates on the “use it or lose it” principle. 

“When people close themselves off to change, they topple over like a bicycle. If the brain is not open to new experiences, it begins to atrophy,” said Prof. Dr. Tarhan, drawing attention to the positive effect of physical activity on brain health and the importance of at least 5,000 steps daily.

## **Exercise not only for physical health; but also for brain health**

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “Exercise increases the growth factor in the brain called BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor). This supports the brain in producing new cells and strengthening neural networks. Research shows that the brains of people open to new experiences regenerate better. Until the 1990s, it was thought that the brain did not regenerate itself. However, with scientific discoveries made in 1998, it was proven that new cells are produced, especially in the hippocampus, the memory center. Research showed that this cell regeneration does not occur at the same level in everyone; it is more pronounced in individuals open to novelty and eager to learn. In these individuals, growth hormones called neurotrophic factors are secreted more. These hormones activate the BDNF gene in the brain. With the increase in BDNF, chemical transmission in the brain accelerates, synaptic connections strengthen, and new nerve cells migrate towards the brain regions where they are needed. Thus, the brain reorganizes itself according to the actively used areas. While all these processes are taking place, the brain also creates new operational models, almost like new “algorithms.” However, for this potential to emerge, the brain must not be left passive. The person needs to be the master of their brain, feeding it with movement, learning, and new experiences. Therefore, exercise stands out as one of the most important steps that can be taken in the new year, not only for physical health but also for brain health and mental renewal.” 

## **Gut, heart, and brain are in constant communication**

Prof. Dr. Tarhan also touched upon the effects of nutrition on mental health, stating that the gut microbiota is linked to the happiness hormone serotonin, and added, “Nuts are now called 'psychobiotics' because they affect the brain via the gut microbiota. The brain, gut, and heart are in constant communication.”

Emphasizing that New Year's resolutions should be seen as an opportunity to identify and correct faulty habits, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “If a person revises their goals with this awareness, they will have taken a solid step in their life journey.”

## **Change requires mental preparation**

Emphasizing that New Year's resolutions should not be seen as an instantaneous decision limited to January 1st, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “January 1st is a symbolic date. Change does not happen suddenly. It definitely requires mental preparation. It doesn't happen by just sitting down and saying 'my New Year's resolution is this.' Before that, one needs to stop, think, and plan.”

Prof. Dr. Tarhan also stated that the New Year period offers an important opportunity for relationships, saying, “The best gift for loved ones during the New Year is not expensive presents; it is quality time together. It is the time dedicated to them.”

## **Too many goals create a mental burden!**

Stating that one of the common mistakes in New Year's resolutions is setting too many goals, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “If there are too many goals, a mental burden arises. This is called over-motivation, and over-motivation paradoxically leads to failure. Instead of high motivation, realistic goals should be set.”

Prof. Dr. Tarhan stated that goals should have five scientifically accepted core characteristics, saying, “The goal must be realistic, specific, measurable, time-bound, and achievable. If these characteristics are not present, that goal is not a goal; it's a dream.”

## **Inflexible goals are doomed to break**

Emphasizing that not reaching a goal does not mean failure, Prof. Dr. Tarhan stated, “If Plan A doesn't work, there should be Plan B; if that doesn't work, Plan C. A good mountaineer doesn't turn back when encountering an obstacle while climbing a mountain; they go around from the right, go around from the left, but they find a way. Because they know someone has reached that peak before.”

Stating that the path to a goal begins with small steps, Prof. Dr. Tarhan emphasized that motivation comes after action and said, “Great journeys begin with a small step. It's not realistic to say 'let motivation come, then I'll start.' First comes desire, then action is taken, and motivation follows.”

## **Goals based on others' approval remain incomplete**

Noting that goals should be personal, Prof. Dr. Tarhan stated that extrinsic motivation is not permanent. 

“A goal is special, unique to the individual. Goals set based on ‘what others will say’ often remain unfinished. Goals set with intrinsic motivation may progress slower but are more lasting,” said Prof. Dr. Tarhan, adding that comparisons made on social media reduce motivation, and while comparison is not entirely wrong, it can be harmful if not used correctly:

“The human brain learns by comparing; this is a biological tendency. But you cannot draw a straight line with a crooked ruler. A person who constantly compares themselves to others cannot find peace,” said Prof. Dr. Tarhan, adding, “One should compare themselves not with others, but with their own goals. They should set medium, short, and long-term goals and compare their current state with their past state.”

Stating that appearance-based comparisons lead to serious psychological problems, especially among young people, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “What makes a person beautiful is not just physical appearance. 20 percent of beauty is physical, 80 percent is charm, demeanor, communication, and attractiveness. We need to question the value standards imposed by modernism.”

## **“Dreaming is beneficial, but it must be grounded”**

Stating that humans are beings who dream, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “One needs to be idealistic but it must be combined with realism and activism. It's not about just looking at dreams; it's important to take a small step every day.”

Stating that the feeling of guilt when goals are not reached is not entirely negative, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “Disappointments experienced on life's journey are sometimes not a threat, but an opportunity. A person who asks 'how can I turn this into an advantage?' experiences developmental trauma.” 

Defining this process with the concept of “exploratory despair,” Prof. Dr. Tarhan continued, “Instead of giving up, a person creates Plan A, B, and C and gains skills. Life skills are formed in this way.”

## **False hope syndrome and toxic optimism**

Emphasizing that unrealistic goals wear people down psychologically, Prof. Dr. Tarhan said, “This is called false hope syndrome or toxic optimism. Unrealistic hopes lead people to pain, break their motivation, and make them depressive.”

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan concluded his words by saying, “In the new year, I recommend a new beginning for everyone, but not a new me... We can suggest improving one's existing self.”

## Akademik Referans

DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.66031](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.66031)

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