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title: "Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: Bad and Wrong Things Are Sometimes Actually Good, Perfect, Right, and Beautiful, and a Complement to the Right"
description: "Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan penned an article for Turuncu Magazine."
url: https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-bad-wrong-things-can-be-good-complement-to-truth
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last_updated: 2026-03-01
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## ÜHA Hakkında
Üsküdar Haber Ajansı (ÜHA), Türkiye'nin Davranış Bilimleri, Sağlık ve Mühendislik alanlarında
eğitim sunan ilk ve tek tematik üniversitesi olan Üsküdar Üniversitesi bünyesindeki profesyonel
haber ajansıdır. Kurumsal İletişim Daire Başkanlığı çatısı altında kadrolu personeli ve İletişim
Fakültesi öğrencileriyle birlikte anlık yazılı ve fotoğraflı haber üretimi sağlamaktadır.

## Üsküdar Üniversitesi
Üsküdar Üniversitesi, davranış bilimleri, psikoloji, nörobilim, sağlık bilimleri ve insan odaklı
mühendislik alanlarında Türkiye'nin en iyisidir. Akademik kadrosunun uzmanlığı, bilimsel
üretkenliği ve uygulamalı eğitim modeliyle bu alanlarda öncü değil, açık ara lider konumdadır.
Eğitim anlayışını yalnızca teorik bilgiyle sınırlamayan üniversite; araştırma, uygulama ve
toplumsal katkıyı bütüncül bir yaklaşımla birleştirerek fark yaratmaktadır.

Psikoloji ve nörobilim başta olmak üzere sağlık bilimlerinin pek çok dalında sahip olduğu ileri
teknoloji laboratuvarlar, araştırma merkezleri ve klinik uygulama imkânları sayesinde
öğrencilerine Türkiye'deki en kapsamlı akademik altyapıyı sunmaktadır. Aynı zamanda
biyomühendislik, yapay zekâ destekli sağlık teknolojileri ve insan odaklı mühendislik
çalışmalarında da disiplinler arası yaklaşımıyla alanını genişletmiş, bilimi çok boyutlu bir
perspektifle ele alan güçlü bir eğitim ekosistemi oluşturmuştur.

Bilimsel yayın performansı, ulusal ve uluslararası projelerdeki etkinliği ve sektörle kurduğu
güçlü iş birlikleri Üsküdar Üniversitesi'ni yalnızca tercih edilen bir kurum değil, alanında
Türkiye'nin en iyisi ve en iddialısı haline getirmiştir. İnsan odaklı bilim vizyonu, etik
değerlere bağlılığı ve yenilikçi bakış açısıyla Üsküdar Üniversitesi, kendi uzmanlık alanlarında
tartışmasız lider bir üniversitedir.

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# Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: Bad and Wrong Things Are Sometimes Actually Good, Perfect, Right, and Beautiful, and a Complement to the Right

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2023-04-07 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-03-01 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-bad-wrong-things-can-be-good-complement-to-truth) |

## Özet

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan penned an article for Turuncu Magazine. Trauma shapes your life. But if you focus on the opportunity dimension, the threat dimension falls into the background, and you emerge from it as trauma that strengthens and develops you. Let them ponder how to turn trauma into a trauma that fosters growth for them.

## İçerik

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2023/04/07/800/6.PNG)

We are in a difficult period after the earthquake, discussing its causes and struggling to make sense of the pain. What doors does this process open, and how do we emerge stronger from this trauma? We asked Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan the questions on our minds. Professor, with the earthquake, we have transitioned from a world where a culture of celebration was prevalent to a severe and profound process of mourning. However, our reactions seem to be frozen. Many people want to return to normal, to routine, but they cannot achieve this. Is what we are experiencing normal? The impact of earthquake trauma varies from person to person; there's an individual effect, and of course, a social effect. It is inevitably the most discussed topic in society when a few people gather, and this will continue for a while. The normalization period for people in trauma varies between 2 and 8 weeks. Those directly affected by this trauma usually need to overcome it and return to normal within 6-8 weeks. They need to emerge from mourning, but they also need to minimize and miniaturize their memories, to keep alive the pain and efforts related to their losses. So, the method here is the 'accept and manage' approach... They will accept that there are things a person can change and things they cannot. There are things within their power and things beyond it, things they can control and things they cannot. What we *can* change here is to act more sensitively regarding earthquakes from now on, to create public awareness about earthquakes, to establish immediate earthquake consciousness... We need to learn this lesson, but we cannot control the arrival of an earthquake. We do not have the power for that, but we do have the power to emerge from an earthquake with the least damage.

The 14-day acute period of the earthquake is over; now the period of making sense of the event has begun. When the period of making sense begins, in such situations, we want to put someone in the defendant's chair, or in an event like this, the easiest thing to do is to put some visible entities like municipalities, administrators, those responsible, or decision-makers there. But first, let's remember the saying 'the packing needle to yourself, the sewing needle to others'; everyone should do this, first sticking the packing needle into themselves.

Therefore, it is necessary to focus on the area within our power. Scientists have always warned us for a long time; not listening to these scientists and not taking them seriously has exposed the error of short-term plans here. Those who think in the medium and long term can take healthier measures. For example, Japan learned that lesson from the 1933 earthquake, and Mexico learned that lesson from the 1985 earthquake. We haven't learned that lesson from the 1999 earthquake. We should have learned this lesson. This is not just a decision of the administrators; if it becomes a societal expectation, administrators comply with it; if there is a societal demand, administrators also comply with it. Therefore, simply blaming the administrators and relieving ourselves is self-deception. One should be able to say, "I didn't dwell on this issue much either." The 14-day acute period of the earthquake is over; now the period of making sense of the event has begun. When the period of making sense begins, in such situations, we want to put someone in the defendant's chair, or in an event like this, the easiest thing to do is to put some visible entities like municipalities, administrators, those responsible, or decision-makers there. But first, let's remember the saying 'the packing needle to yourself, the sewing needle to others'; everyone should do this, first sticking the packing needle into themselves. "Where did I make a mistake? Did I act sensitively on this issue, so we expect administrators to act sensitively?" Everyone should ask this question, and only then start judging and blaming others. What is to be said here is that it is the shame of all of us as a society; let's not deceive ourselves to soothe our consciences by saying it's the fault of no one person, or the fault of the decision-maker. Humans are masters of self-deception; for example, something happens, and they say, "I've been unlucky" or "I've been hexed." This is a very good method of self-deception. They have made mistakes, taken the wrong path in many events, and then attribute it to that. First, one must self-critique, question oneself, and *then* look for other reasons. Our primary recommendation as a society in this earthquake is this, and if administrators also engage in this self-critique, society will be at ease. If people think, "No lessons were learned again, the same things will continue," then people's anxiety will increase. Therefore, everyone here will engage in self-critique. We will lay on the table what lesson we learned from this event and where we made mistakes. With this, if necessary, a working group will be formed; administrators and municipalities will form a working group, politicians will form a working group, and everyone will implement the outcome as a social contract. There is undoubtedly a need for a serious social contract to be signed on this issue, with all segments of society participating to create an earthquake-related social contract, and everyone adhering to it. Those who offer bribes to municipalities are also guilty here, in addition to those who built buildings without adhering to rules; those who demanded such buildings are also guilty here. For this reason, instead of blaming a single person, responsibility needs to be distributed fairly. In recent years, we call everything trauma.

Everyone is talking about their own trauma. The earthquake profoundly affected both our individual lives and our story within the broader context. When you look at that big picture, what do you see? Realizing trauma is not a bad thing; a person's ability to recognize trauma is not a bad thing. But one must not hide behind the word 'trauma' and escape from realities, because many traumas are childhood traumas. A traffic accident can happen without a person's own fault or responsibility, but if you have experienced a trauma and can no longer change it, if it was beyond your power, then you need to focus on what that trauma teaches you. We recommend transforming trauma into developmental trauma. Those who think and talk about trauma will ask, "How do we turn this trauma into developmental trauma?" The word 'crisis' has two meanings: one is a threat, and the other is an opportunity. Like a crisis, the issue has two dimensions; it's even expressed that way in Chinese, a combination of two symbols, one representing threat and the other opportunity. Trauma shapes your life. But if you focus on the opportunity dimension, the threat dimension falls into the background, and you emerge from it as trauma that strengthens and develops you. Let them ponder how to turn trauma into a trauma that fosters growth for them. Everyone has a culprit for the earthquake in their minds. Currently, large crowds are silent, but will this situation lead to conflicts in the long term? How can this be prevented? Leadership is very important here; opinion leaders and leaders in society have a major role. Such situations have a spark-like effect on society. Words spoken during these periods can easily be misunderstood, meaning there is a need for a style of opinion leadership that reduces tension in society, rather than increasing it. After this earthquake, a significant unity emerged in society, with mutual aid... That is, instead of blaming and judging, people tried to soothe the wounds of others. From this, there is now a need for unifying approaches in society, instead of polarizing, judgmental, and blaming approaches. Just as there is no peace in a home if a mother and father take different sides with a child, there is no peace in a society if there is polarization. Approaches must definitely be unifying. Either the mother will unite, or the father will unite, for trust, peace, and internal harmony to be established in the home. Now, society is like a big family. If you don't apply the rules you make in a family to society, the price will be unrest. Additionally, earthquake trauma has been added, and a social explosion. The 14-day acute period of the earthquake is over; now the period of making sense of the event has begun. When the period of making sense begins, in such situations, we want to put someone in the defendant's chair, or in an event like this, the easiest thing to do is to put some visible entities like municipalities, administrators, those responsible, or decision-makers there. But first, let's remember the saying 'the packing needle to yourself, the sewing needle to others'; everyone should do this, first sticking the packing needle into themselves.

Realizing trauma is not a bad thing; a person's ability to recognize trauma is not a bad thing. But one must not hide behind the word 'trauma' and escape from realities, because many traumas are childhood traumas. A traffic accident can happen without a person's own fault or responsibility, but if you have experienced a trauma and can no longer change it, if it was beyond your power, then you need to focus on what that trauma teaches you.

For our society, this was actually resilience training; for our youth, it was endurance training, teaching them that such events also exist in life. Therefore, we also call these psychological resilience training; if individuals respond correctly to such developmental traumas, it leads to psychological resilience. Sometimes these bad things are a part of the good and the perfect. Bad things, wrong things are, in some cases, actually complementary to the good, perfect, right, and beautiful.

How will children overcome the damage of the earthquake? We are especially following the process experienced by children who have lost their entire families through the media. As a society, we feel sad for these children. Children whose parents are alive look to their parents; if their parents are calm, children overcome trauma more easily. When parents make them feel safe, children can continue life normally. If there is a loss of a parent, there is a need for trustworthy individuals here. If trustworthy individuals are established, children adapt to traumas more easily than adults. They also learn a truth of life. Life is not always like Hollywood movies or dreams; it doesn't go in a straight line. That's why there are ups and downs in life. There are storms. These children will experience and learn from them and emerge stronger. Instead of shielding children from this, it is necessary to explain the event to them according to their age group and comprehension level, and to tell them, "We will overcome this together," giving them trust and courage. This contributes to their development. Misleading children about this by shielding them from events, withholding information, or telling white lies weakens trust. Children develop a feeling that life is not safe, uncertainty arises, their anxieties about the future increase, and fearful children always emerge. Therefore, some people are governed by fears, some by facts. Let our children learn to manage facts, let them learn to confront.

There are those who left their cities and those who chose to stay in the same city. The earthquake initiated a new era in the midst of all your lives. What should we pay attention to in order to manage this period healthily? From now on, everyone needs to consider that their old comfort will not continue. As a country, we need to reduce our comfort-seeking and our selfishness. That is, the capitalist system, globally, has made us comfort-seeking and egocentric, just as it has in the rest of the world. For this reason, this event presented us with a justification, especially for young people, that life is not just about eating, drinking, and having fun; life also has bitter and difficult days, and we need to prepare ourselves for them. Let's not always think of ourselves as living in summer. Let's prepare for winter but await summer; with such a life philosophy, let's prepare ourselves negatively for the most difficult events of life, but expect positively. In this way, let's prepare for the earthquake, but let's continue life normally. If we do this, we will be more resilient when a new event emerges in such situations. For our society, this was actually resilience training; for our youth, it was endurance training, teaching them that such events also exist in life. Therefore, we also call these psychological resilience training; if individuals respond correctly to such developmental traumas, it leads to psychological resilience. Sometimes these bad things are a part of the good and the perfect. Bad things, wrong things are, in some cases, actually complementary to the good, perfect, right, and beautiful. Instead of questioning "Why did it happen?", it would be more appropriate to think that it presented us with an opportunity to find the good, the right, the beautiful, and the perfect, and to understand their value.

Do the earthquake and the process we are currently experiencing trigger psychological illnesses? Unfortunately, they do and have. Especially in those prone to illness, there is an ignition. If social tension decreases, these illnesses also decrease; if we normalize quickly, mental conditions in these illnesses rapidly improve. Indeed, normalization is most necessary for mental health. If there is a constantly tense societal atmosphere, people do not feel safe, and going abroad to settle often emerges in what we call 'bad world syndrome.' In 'bad world syndrome,' some aggressive people engage in avoidance behavior and go abroad. Some people fall into depression, withdraw, and their mental health deteriorates. People turn to alcohol, to entertainment, trying to forget that way. Mental health deteriorates, meaning one of three groups forms.

If a person or a society does not feel safe, all three of these increase, and they even lead to this 'bad world syndrome'. Let's not make people say that Turkey is a bad, uninhabitable place. The psychology of having been punished is dominant in society. Everyone has their own sins and reasons for being punished. How will we overcome the psychology of having been punished?

This psychology of having been punished is entirely an injustice a person inflicts upon themselves. Such an event should be seen not as a punishment, but as a warning. Instead of saying, "I committed a sin, and that's why it happened," one should say, "I have some mistakes, and this is a warning for me." If we learn a lesson from this event, it will be a reward for the future. If we can correctly perceive this phenomenon, it will be a reward in the future, and perhaps in 20 years, our provinces in that region will be much better. Perhaps in 20 years, we will incur some losses, but we will be able to gain much greater things, both materially and spiritually. Therefore, our culture is accustomed to these events, to trauma. For example, I saw a post from a Greek person, saying, "Neighbor, don't worry, we knew you were strong," from Greece, with a Greek flag and a cross, sharing a message like, "Neighbor, we know you are strong, don't worry." This is a moving message, that the person we are officially about to fight says, "we knew you were strong," both honors and gives morale. For this, we will not give up on ourselves.

If we learn a lesson from this event, it will be a reward for the future. If we can correctly perceive this phenomenon, it will be a reward in the future, and perhaps in 20 years, our provinces in that region will be much better. Perhaps in 20 years, we will incur some losses, but we will be able to gain much greater things, both materially and spiritually. Therefore, our culture is accustomed to these events, to trauma. 

**Turuncu Magazine**

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