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title: "Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Globally, the family is the weakest link. That link must be strengthened”"
description: "The Families at University Project, carried out in cooperation with Üsküdar Üniversitesi and NPİSTANBUL Beyin Hastanesi, is being implemented in Gaziantep."
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last_updated: 2026-02-27
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# Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Globally, the family is the weakest link. That link must be strengthened”

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2020-12-31 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-02-27 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-globally-family-is-the-weakest-link-that-link-must-be-strengthened) |

## Özet

**Üsküdar Üniversitesi ****and ****NPİSTANBUL Beyin Hastanesi****, in cooperation, are implementing the Families at University Project in Gaziantep. The first lecture of the project, carried out within the scope of cooperation between Gaziantep Metropolitan Municipality, Üsküdar Üniversitesi, and NPİSTANBUL Beyin Hastanesi with the support of Gaziantep Governorship, was given by ****Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan****. Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan noted that in addition to a global civilization crisis, there is also another crisis brought by the pandemic, and said, “Crises are like a chain. The strongest link in the chain is its weakest link. This weakest link currently appears to be the family globally. Both of these crises seem to harm the family. If we strengthen the weak link, we will also have taken precautions against the damages caused by the crisis.”**

## İçerik

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2020/12/31/800/genel_1.jpeg)

The Families at University Project, first launched in Istanbul in cooperation with Üsküdar Üniversitesi and NPİSTANBUL Beyin Hastanesi with the support of Istanbul Governorship, has now begun to be implemented in Gaziantep. Within the scope of the project, which was realized with a protocol signed between Gaziantep Metropolitan Municipality and the support of Gaziantep Governorship, training has started to be provided to young people in need, couples preparing for marriage, and families in Gaziantep.

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2020/12/31/800/fatma-sahin_1.jpeg)

**Mayor Fatma Şahin: “The spirit of the times affects family and family values the most”**

Gaziantep Metropolitan Municipality Mayor Fatma Şahin, delivering the opening speech of the program held online due to pandemic measures, reminded that a great globalization is being faced and said, “The spirit of the times affects the family and family values the most. Sociological changes such as digitalization and migration also alter the problem areas of the family. We are facing a serious problem that needs to be managed, and if it is not managed, we see that we are facing a major social problem. In fact, the title itself expresses everything. Because a conscious individual is the beginning of everything. Here, education is essential to raise awareness in individuals, and trainer training is essential. Information from experts showing where this is going is very important. Because when an individual becomes conscious, they turn into a healthy family.” Thanking everyone who contributed to the project, Fatma Şahin said, “This work requires voluntarism, effort, expertise, and endeavor. If you have a concern, you deal with these things. What could be better for humanity, for us, than being with those who have this concern, touching a family, a person, touching their heart, finding a solution to their problem, and sympathizing with their troubles? That's why I am grateful to each and every one of you.”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2020/12/31/800/gaziantep-il-muftusu-dr-huseyin-hazirlar_1.jpeg)

**Dr. Hüseyin Hazırlar: “Family is the cornerstone of our society”**

Gaziantep Mufti Dr. Hüseyin Hazırlar also stated that the project is very important, saying, “As a nation, as a society, our safest haven is undoubtedly the family. Because the family, as you know, is in a sense the nucleus of our civilization, the cornerstone of our society. Therefore, the fundamental values we need for a better life, we primarily obtain in the family; our fundamental values come to life there. Consequently, the love and affection we receive from there will spread peace to the entire society and the world. Therefore, strengthening the family and raising its awareness through these trainings is extremely important. I wholeheartedly thank our esteemed minister for his sensitivity, support, and responsiveness on this matter. Today, we are also extremely happy to listen to our very valuable rector and for their partnership in this project.”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2020/12/31/800/nevzat-tarhan-1_1.jpeg)

**First lecture from Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Family in Hard Times”**

In the seminar, which saw intense participation from all over Turkey and even from abroad, Üsküdar Üniversitesi Founding Rector, Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, gave the first lecture titled “Family in Hard Times.”

Starting his lecture with a short opening speech, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “As our esteemed minister said, why did we concern ourselves so much with this issue? We genuinely did concern ourselves, and our staff is striving with such enthusiasm and zeal to address people's problems. Currently, in the Istanbul project, we are continuing the second phase with governorships and district governorships. There was a much better participation than we expected. We did not expect children under 18 in the white group to follow with such interest and attention. We saw that participants in the pre-marriage pink group, the orange group experiencing minor issues related to marriage, and the red group needing couple's therapy, having reached a clinical case point, listened with great excitement and attention. We felt that we touched their souls and saw that it was very beneficial. This also increased our motivation.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “We've moved past the medium and long term; there are things to be done in the short term!”**

Stating that “This issue is truly a necessity of our age,” Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan continued, “Where is the world heading? As those working in the field, we are currently seeing the precursors of the crisis. We are getting some signs of it; a storm is coming. I will present what we can do against this without being hopeless or pessimistic. What do we understand by 'hard times'? There are two types of hard times. A rapid global transformation in family-related values. The family is a sociological structure, so transformations are usually slow. However, looking after the 60s, there has been very rapid change. Changes that would normally not happen in 300 years occurred in 30-40 years. We are in such a period. Something needs to be done about it. We have now given up on the medium and long term; things need to be done in the short term. We realized this, and that's why we are emphasizing it. The second hard time is the pandemic. The two came together.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Globally, the family appears to be the weakest link”**

Stating that two crises affecting the world can be mentioned, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan noted that the family institution would be most affected by these crises and said: “There is a global civilization crisis. The other is the crisis brought by the pandemic. Crises are like a chain. The strongest link in the chain is actually its weakest link. This weakest link currently appears to be the family globally. Both of these crises seem to harm the family. If we strengthen the weak link, we will also have taken precautions against the damages caused by the crisis. An epidemiological study was conducted in Turkey showing the number of marriages between 2001 and 2018. In 2001, there were 544,000 married couples, and in 2018, 553,000. There was only a 1.6% increase in 17 years. In the same period, divorces increased by 54%. Another statistic provided information on household size in the period from 1994 to 2016. Startling changes in family structure, an increase in single-person households and single-parent families, a decrease in household size, and an increase in the number of fragile households were included in the statistics. Single-person families significantly increased from 1994 to 2016. Then, 2, 3, 4-person families increased. A decrease is observed in 5-person families. Approximately 50 out of a hundred families were 5-person families thirty years ago. But now, only 25% are 5-person families. The concept of single, two, and three-person families emerged. Two-person families largely became broken families. We can say that one-third of society is currently experiencing such a problem.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Loneliness, the nightmare of modernism”**

Referring to a loneliness study conducted by the University of Manchester in 2018, Tarhan said, “This study yielded a surprising result. 40% of young people aged 16-24 feel lonely. 27% of elderly people over 75 feel lonely. In 2018, the prime minister's office announced the establishment of a ministry responsible for loneliness because 8.5 million Britons live alone at home. Loneliness appears as the nightmare of modernism. This also shows that family ties are weakening.

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Children no longer interact with each other”**

Tarhan noted that in the USA, happiness and average per capita income growth levels were measured from 1950 to 2000, and while income growth was at 20 points in the 1950s, it rose to 35 points in 2000, adding, “If we consider 2020, we can say it has increased even further. We also see that the happiness score has decreased. Despite the rise in material prosperity, psychological and spiritual well-being are not increasing. Another statistic identified the time adolescents spend with each other. Data from the 80s to 2015 was presented. While 50% of young people needed friends in the 90s, this need dropped to 15-20% in 2015. This is also a very serious problem. Children no longer interact with each other,” he said. Warning that “As a result of digital technology becoming the sole form of communication, children come with problems,” Tarhan continued, “Families say their children are lonely, they don't have friends. When we examine it, the child is not genetically problematic, but such problems occur due to upbringing mistakes. We are entering a period where the development of these skills is at risk. The rate of young people seeing each other has dropped to 20%.”

**Tarhan: “Turkey ranks first in violence against women…”**

Referring to the femicides discussed in recent days, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that Turkey ranks first in the OECD's 2019 statistics on domestic violence experienced by people living in the same household, saying, “Among OECD countries, we are the country with the highest rate of violence against women. This is the 2019 statistic. We attach so much importance to combating violence against women. Society cares, the state cares, many laws have been enacted, electronic ankle monitors have been introduced. But why are we first in the world in this area? The lifetime rate of physical, sexual violence and violence among intimate partners. In Turkey's statistics, 38 out of 100 people have been victims of violence at least once in their lifetime. It's 36 in America, 35 in New Zealand, then 32, 32, and 29 in England.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “We frequently encounter the Western civilization crisis in our country as well”**

Stating that the California syndrome experienced by Western civilization is now also observed in our country, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “This syndrome has four characteristics. The first is hedonism, seeing the philosophy of pleasure as the reason for living. The second is egocentrism; its personality-turned form is narcissism. That is, a person sees themselves as special, important, superior, and at the center of the world. Only they are the most important, and they say, 'I am important, the family is not important.' 'My children are not important, my spouse is not important. I am important,' they say. If there is such a hierarchy in their mental map, this person is egocentric, and if it has even become a personality trait, this person is a narcissist. Third, loneliness and alienation emerge. Finally, unhappiness and depression are observed.”

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan noted that presenting hedonism as a life goal to young people and individuals has great harms for humanity, saying, “The world is globally experiencing the challenges of hedonism. This is not sustainable. The choice of hedonism as a life philosophy is a historical fallacy of modernism.”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2020/12/31/800/nevzat-tarhan-2_1.jpeg)

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Happy families have three characteristics”**

Stating that the pandemic offered five characteristics and three opportunities, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan noted that happy families have three characteristics, saying, “It disrupted our psychological well-being. Our freedom, our physical comfort. Our human relationships, our family life were negatively affected. We felt that death was near, but the pandemic gave us three gifts. It gave us free time. Spending time with family. This was something we always recommended for families. A study by the University of Nebraska identified three characteristics of happy families. The first is spending time together, the second is the frequent use of words of appreciation, praise, and approval. The third is having common cultural values. Families with these three characteristics were found to be happy.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The pandemic offers an opportunity for the reconstruction of human values”**

Noting that the pandemic process has effects on psychological resilience and maturation, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “The pandemic offers an opportunity for the reconstruction of universal and human values that we have abandoned. If we use these opportunities, the pandemic can turn into a gain. If we don't use them, the damages from the pandemic will be greater for us. It will pass sooner or later, but how can we get through it in the healthiest way possible?”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The pandemic increased psychological maturation”**

Tarhan stated that at the beginning of the Covid-19 pandemic, Üsküdar Üniversitesi master's students conducted a study with the participation of 6,318 people in 81 provinces, noting that they examined psychological processes, perceptions, anxieties, fears, and maturation. Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “In terms of maturation, we had 6 questions taken from the Post-Traumatic Growth Inventory. Perceptions, anxieties, fears, and maturation were grouped under headings. Some results from this research showed that 59% of respondents said the priority of things they valued in life changed. 49% said their interest in spiritual matters increased, 56% understood that they could overcome difficulties, and 56% said they could accept events as they are. 48% started putting more effort into their relationships, and 74% better understood the value of what they have. These six questions are fundamental needs for a person to be happy and peaceful, to empathize in life, and to be able to spend more time with family members.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Family is very important because a child learns life in the family”**

“Let's absolutely not fall into despair and pessimism here,” said Prof. Dr. Tarhan. “If we take the right position, we will find ways to make ourselves, our children, and our loved ones happy. The family is a living entity. In organizational psychology, an individual is a small family, and society is a large individual. Family culture is a set of shared values, life scenarios experienced, norms, assumptions, rituals, narratives, belief systems, language, and role models within the family. Why is a family so important in a person's developing life? Because a child learns life in the family. Shared values are there, life scenarios are there. If there is time spent together in the family, stories emerge, narratives emerge. Values emerge. The child develops this in their later life,” he said. Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan concluded by stating that children should be taught to be good people as an ego ideal, saying, “We should not only want a child to be intelligent and hardworking. Children follow in our footsteps. We need to teach a child to be a good person who keeps their word and is honest.”

**Tarhan: “The value of empathy should be revitalized in society…”**

 Answering participants' questions during the program, which was also broadcast live on Üsküdar Üniversitesi Television's ÜÜTV Channel 2, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said that marriages with love, goodwill, and effort thrive. Tarhan underlined that the value of empathy should be revitalized in the family and society, also emphasizing that love must be given to children in the family environment and shown to them, saying, “One should be generous with love towards children. Unless love is given to a child, love cannot be received from them. The value of empathy must be taught and revitalized in society.”

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