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title: "Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The virtue of giving importance to relationships can develop after trauma”"
description: "The 5th International Positive Psychology Congress is being held with the theme “The Science of Goodness / What Arises from Goodness? & Earthquake and Post-Traumatic Growth”."
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# Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The virtue of giving importance to relationships can develop after trauma”

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2023-03-10 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-03-01 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-the-virtue-of-giving-importance-to-relationships-can-devel) |

## Özet

**The 5th International Positive Psychology Congress, organized this year by Üsküdar University, is being held with the theme “The Science of Goodness / What Arises from Goodness? & Earthquake and Post-Traumatic Growth”. At the congress, held with the participation of world-renowned scientists, topics such as ‘The Science of Goodness’, ‘What Arises from Goodness?’, ‘Meaning and Purpose of Life’, ‘Optimism and Hope’, ‘Psychological Needs and Motivation’, ‘Psychological Resilience’, ‘Post-Traumatic Growth’ and ‘Human Relationships and Social Support’ are being discussed. Üsküdar University Founding Rector Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that one of the parameters of post-traumatic growth is being able to develop the virtue of giving importance to relationships. Tarhan said, “As humans become more self-centered, they become lonelier, and as they become more powerful, they become lonelier and do not value relationships. However, in events like earthquakes, people begin to see that loneliness is a harmful element for themselves.”**

## İçerik

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The 5th International Positive Psychology Congress, organized this year by Üsküdar University in partnership with NPİSTANBUL Hastanesi, NP Etiler & Feneryolu Medical Center, the Turkish Psychological Counseling and Guidance Association, and the Positive Psychology Institute, hosts expert names working in this field. The theme of this year's three-day congress has been determined as “The Science of Goodness / What Arises from Goodness? & Earthquake and Post-Traumatic Growth.”

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The congress, held in a phygital format at the Nermin Tarhan Conference Hall of Üsküdar University Central Campus, began with the opening speeches of Üsküdar University Founding Rector Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, who is also the Congress President, and Üsküdar University Rector's Advisor, Acting Dean of the Faculty of Humanities and Social Sciences, Prof. Dr. Deniz Ülke Arıboğan.

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**Prof. Dr. Deniz Ülke Arıboğan: “Experts satisfy their egos in their statements”**

Prof. Dr. Deniz Ülke Arıboğan stated that the Kahramanmaraş-centered earthquake, as scientifically revealed, is a disaster that occurs once every 500 years and activated multiple destructive tremors. “The earthquake we experienced is defined as a disaster event that affected the widest geography in human history. There is another trauma experienced by millions of people who were exposed to the traumatic effects of the earthquake or felt as if they were within the event by watching it. Furthermore, there are experts who, by not allowing enough time to grieve for the disaster in our cities and by stating within the first 24 hours that an Istanbul earthquake is imminent, traumatize everyone in the country. Earthquakes are a reality of our lives, and experts also say this, but how they say it is important. We see experts who inflate their egos slightly, satisfying their narcissistic personality disorders on television at the expense of the public to make themselves seem different. The main issue is not to scare people. Telling people they will die should not be so easy.”

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**Prof. Dr. Deniz Ülke Arıboğan: “The fundamental source of traumas is not earthquakes, but lack of scientific knowledge”**

Noting that humanity's primary priority is to ensure its safety, Prof. Dr. Deniz Ülke Arıboğan said, “Dangers occur outside our homes, that is, outside the place we take refuge. We never think that sanctuary would be a source of danger. The place we need to flee to and seek shelter in is now the danger itself. However, we think we can survive by living on the streets. This is actually a trauma of disconnection. Very clearly, the way to recover from the effects of major disasters like earthquakes is through science. We need to implement construction structures, urban planning, and a way of thinking that will keep us safe. Because the fundamental source of traumas is not earthquakes, but lack of scientific knowledge.”

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**P****rof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “They presented our Anatolian wisdom to the world under the name of Positive Psychology”**

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan reminded that the concept of positive psychology first began to be discussed in 2005. “The first congress on this topic was held in 2008. A new scientific discipline emerged. While investigating its foundations, it was actually found that they had taken our Anatolian wisdom, systematized it, developed its methodology, and presented it as Positive Psychology. We also presented it as a rectorate course to all students in 2013. Subsequently, Harvard added it to its curriculum in 2015, Yale in 2018, and Bristol University in 2019. Bristol University regarded positive psychology as the science of happiness against the suicide epidemic. Currently, in the US, high school and middle school students are taken to mindfulness training during class. This is because suicide attempts and major depression cases among students in the West and the US have greatly increased, practically peaking since 2008.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Every trauma has a threat and an opportunity dimension”**

Reminding of the earthquake disaster that occurred on February 6, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “Prof. Dr. Howard Gardner, our guest of honor from Harvard University, asked about the postponement of the congress due to the earthquake. We told him that, scientifically, one should transition to normalization within 2-4 weeks. We believe that the 5th International Positive Psychology Congress will contribute to normalization. We wanted to continue the congress by adding a sub-heading called post-traumatic growth. Every trauma has both a threat and an opportunity dimension. Scientists and geoscientists focus heavily on the threat dimension. They may be right from their perspective, but the opportunity dimension should not be neglected.”

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**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “We should benefit from positive psychology for community mental health”**

Noting that our lives will change to 'before the earthquake' and 'after the earthquake', Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “In this geography, human comfort has now been disrupted. We have to question the reliability of our living spaces. On the other hand, our freedom has also been restricted. It was felt that death was closer than anticipated, especially among young people. Despite this, happiness is possible. A person can only be happy if they define happiness correctly. Happiness is not a goal or a result, but a process. It is necessary to capture that process and be on that path. Popular culture particularly teaches happiness based on internal and external causes. The really important thing is to enable a person to be happy by correcting their internal dynamics. If we want to protect the mental health of society, prevent illness, and do something to reduce violence and crime, we need to benefit from positive psychology, which has very serious scientific references as a preventive health study.”

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Following the opening speeches of the congress, the congress panels commenced.

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**Prof. Dr. Sırrı Akbaba: “Positive psychology is an original product of our culture”**

In the opening panel of the congress titled “The Science of Happiness,” Prof. Dr. Sırrı Akbaba from Üsküdar University stated in his speech titled “The Healing Power of Being Virtuous” that positive psychology is an original product of our culture, adding, “Being a virtuous person forms the focal point of positive psychology.” Prof. Dr. Adnan Ömerustaoğlu from Biruni University delivered a speech titled “The Science of Happiness,” and Prof. Dr. Halil Ekşi from Marmara University spoke on “Positive Psychology and Spirituality.”

In the last panel of the congress before noon, titled “Earthquake and Developing Trauma,” the earthquake and its traumatic effects were discussed.

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2023/03/10/800/img-2266_2.JPG)

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The hierarchy of what people value has changed”**

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, Founding Rector and Chairman of the Executive Board of Üsküdar University, participating as a panelist in the panel titled “Earthquake and Developing Trauma,” drew attention to the developing effect of trauma in the context of “Post-Traumatic Growth.” Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan began his speech by noting that traumas develop virtues in human life. “Firstly, the hierarchy of what people value in their lives has changed. The same event can give different perspectives to different people. While it can bring virtue and meaning to one person, another might perceive it as meaninglessness. We can define this as absurdism. Absurdists state, ‘Seeking meaning is meaningless; struggling with meaning is the greatest meaning.’ On the other hand, people understood that they could endure difficulties. Life has hidden psychological laws. Life rewards those who can cope with difficulties. In our culture, this is known as patience. However, patience is not just enduring, but adapting to the speed and rhythm of nature. It is about balancing when to speed up and when to slow down. In some matters, we need to slow down and change our priorities.”

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The earthquake provided the skill of delaying gratification”**

Noting that people have started to accept events as they are, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan said, “In mindfulness, it's referred to as acceptance and commitment, but I evaluate it as acceptance and management. One must also consider an individual's free will. Events should be accepted as they are, and then management should come into play. There are things a person can change and things they cannot. To realize this, one must use their power of reasoning. One also needs to be tolerant to find the truths. The earthquake teaches this; in fact, it becomes psychological resilience training for people. The earthquake forces society to experience the resilience training that we try to provide in therapies. At the same time, the skill of delaying gratification was acquired. People wanted things to happen immediately, now. In addition to the earthquake, the pandemic also had a cumulative effect in developing the skill of delaying gratification. Furthermore, it is possible to say that interest in spiritual matters has increased.”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2023/03/10/800/nevzat-tarhan-1_4.JPG)

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “People understood the value of what they possess”**

Noting that more importance has started to be given to relationships, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan continued his words as follows: “One of the parameters of post-traumatic growth is being able to develop the virtue of giving importance to relationships. As humans become more self-centered, they become lonelier; as they become more powerful, they become lonelier and do not value relationships. However, in events like earthquakes, people begin to see that loneliness is a harmful element for themselves. Humans are relational beings. Neurobiologically, they can be happy when they are relational. Even in mice, there is a balance of sociality and happiness. On the other hand, people also understood the value of what they possess. Being happy with small things is a skill. The current capitalist system constantly puts 10 people into competition with slogans like ‘Earn more, be the best,’ but only 3 people can be happy. A system that makes 7 people unhappy is not a fair system. Therefore, one should succeed in being happy with small things and set big goals. We teach our students, ‘Be ambitious in education, be content with the harvest.’ ”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2023/03/10/800/img-0693_1.JPG)

**Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “The brain reacts faster to negative events”**

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that consciousness studies are among the foremost topics neurobiology is currently focusing on. “Above our brain, there is consciousness. The brain reacts to positive events after 300 milliseconds, while responding to negative events after 50 milliseconds. This shows that the brain spends 6 times more time on positive events. Since the brain works focused on threat and survival, it perceives negativity more quickly. When the brain makes a decision, it takes action. In such a situation, consciousness becomes active. Research is being conducted to see if there is an executive gene in the brain that performs these actions, but none has been found so far.”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2023/03/10/800/mert-akcanbas-1_1.JPG)

**Dr. Mert Akcanbaş drew attention to the concept of collective empathy**

Dr. Mert Akcanbaş, Lecturer from Üsküdar University, emphasized the importance of social support and the concept of collective empathy after trauma in his speech titled “Trust, Social Support, and the Importance of Losses in Post-Earthquake Growth.” Dr. Mert Akcanbaş drew attention to suicide cases occurring after major disasters worldwide, stating that suicide rates increased for two years following major earthquakes, especially in countries with high individualism like America and Japan. Conversely, in countries with stronger social ties, there was no change in suicide incidents, and the rate of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder was very low, Akcanbaş noted, adding that social support, in particular, prevented suicide cases. Noting that social support and a collective self-sacrifice structure strengthen people, Dr. Mert Akcanbaş said, “As a new terminology, I will say collective empathy… After this earthquake, I hear a lot from my friends: ‘When I lie in a warm place, I think of them and I am ashamed of where I am lying.’ We hear of people not wanting to go out to eat. This collective empathy, as we call it, is a condition peculiar to cultures like ours, which have not lost this kind of collective structure.”

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**Dr. Hazal Ayas: “Psychological flexibility is very important”**

Dr. Hazal Ayas, Lecturer from Üsküdar University, addressed the effects of post-earthquake growth in her presentation titled “Post-Traumatic Growth and Related Factors.” Dr. Hazal Ayas noted that while some experience more growth after trauma, others do not. “Those with a rigid perspective before trauma do not experience growth. The more rigid this perspective is—such as ‘nothing will happen to me’ or ‘I am a very careful person, I have taken my precautions’—the more intense the shock from the traumatic event, because the schema is rigid. Psychological flexibility is very important here, and the flexibility of schemas is also very important.”

![](https://cdn.uskudar.edu.tr/uploads/images/2023/03/10/800/img-0946_1.JPG)

**Prof. Dr. Gardner from Harvard University was the guest of honor**

At the congress, which continued with the conference by sociologist Prof. Dr. Fatma Beylü Dikeçligil titled “Does Illness Arise from Compassion?”, Prof. Dr. Metin Pişkin from Ankara University gave a conference titled “Positive Career Counseling in the 21st Century.” On the first day of the congress, Prof. Dr. Howard Gardner from Harvard University, as the guest of honor, delivered a speech titled “The Science of Goodness, Theory of Multiple Intelligences.”

**Will give an online conference from Ukraine**

Workshops attended by NPİSTANBUL Hastanesi specialists were also held at the congress. Important scientists will also give lectures on the second and third days of the congress. Prof. Dr. Daria Suprun from Ukrainian Dragomanov University, who will participate online from Ukraine, will also give a conference titled “Professional Identity and Social Values: Synergy of Education and Spirituality.”

**Prof. Dr. Oğuz Tanrıdağ will explain “Neuroscientific Foundations of Positive Psychology”**

Prof. Dr. Oğuz Tanrıdağ, Neurologist at Üsküdar University NPİSTANBUL Hastanesi, will also participate in the congress with a conference titled “Neuroscientific Foundations of Positive Psychology.” On the last day of the conference, NPİSTANBUL Hastanesi Expert Clinical Psychologist Özgenur Taşkın will present “The Relationship Between Self-Compassion and Mindful Awareness,” and Dr. Fatma Turan, Lecturer from Üsküdar University, will give a conference titled “The Voice of Hope: Silent Good Deeds.”

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