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title: "Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: \"There should be no despair in a physician's lexicon\""
description: "Üsküdar Üniversitesi, Nevzat Tarhan, Gölcük Necati Çelik State Hospital, Communication Accidents, Difficult Personalities, Empathy, Healthy Communication, Role Sharing"
url: https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-there-should-be-no-despair-in-a-physicians-lexicon
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language: en
last_updated: 2026-02-26
category: haber
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# Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: "There should be no despair in a physician's lexicon"

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2026-02-05 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-02-26 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-there-should-be-no-despair-in-a-physicians-lexicon) |

## Özet

**Üsküdar Üniversitesi Founding Rector, Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, met with physicians and healthcare professionals at Gölcük Necati Çelik State Hospital. Speaking under the title 'Communication Accidents,' Tarhan made remarkable statements about the place and importance of communication, especially in healthcare and life. Addressing methods for dealing with difficult personalities, Tarhan underlined the necessity of an empathy-based approach. He stated that proper role sharing for healthy communication and establishing open and trust-based communication are crucial in professional relationships. He emphasized that unresolved emotional conflicts can have physical manifestations over time, and underlined that there should be no despair in a physician's lexicon. **

## İçerik

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The interview was held in the Conference Hall of Gölcük Necati Çelik State Hospital. 

Journalist Şaban Özdemir moderated the interview.  

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## **"Communication is crucial not only in healthcare but also in life"**

Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, addressing the decisive role of communication in social life, said: "Communication is crucial not only in healthcare but also in life. Unlike other animal offspring, human babies are born premature in terms of communication. That is, when a human is born, they come into the world psychologically premature. For example, a duck knows how to swim as soon as it hatches from an egg. A baby giraffe is born, shakes once or twice, and immediately starts walking. A human baby can only walk after about a year and can distinguish between good and bad at 15 years old. This means all of a person's social, emotional, and communication skills are learned later. Humans learn in their birth environment, acquiring communication later. This situation also applies to the healthcare field. Communication is decisive in family relationships, spousal relationships, relationships with children, in short, in all social life."

## **Emotional transfer is important!**

Tarhan noted that there are two types of communication: verbal and non-verbal. "Verbal communication consists of the words we use and makes up approximately 20 percent of communication. Eighty percent of communication is non-verbal (wordless) communication: tone of voice, subliminal emphasis, facial expressions, gestures, body language, and chosen words… All of these constitute the majority of communication and create an emotional transfer to the other party. Communication with emotional transfer is not the same as communication with verbal transfer. We perform emotional transfer entirely through an unconscious mechanism, without realizing it. Our sincerity is visible there, our transparency is understood," he stated. 

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## **Toxic dark forces…**

Addressing difficult personalities in the interview, which also covered questions from participants, Tarhan said: "There is a concept called the 'Dark Triad.' Narcissistic personality, Machiavellian personality, and antisocial personality. These are the toxic dark triad. A person with these three traits is like a tumor or cancer cell. A cancer cell grows boundlessly, irresponsibly, and insatiably. It always says 'me,' devouring nearby tissues. It uses most of the glucose that enters the body. It grows and grows without considering whether the body will die or not... If it started in the liver, the person dies from liver failure, but it never thinks about that. Similarly, there are toxic personalities in communication. We define these as difficult personalities. It is necessary to recognize them and develop a correct attitude towards them. There are three pillars of communication even in people who come to the hospital. One is healthy communication, the second is conflictual communication, and the third is lack of communication. The worst is lack of communication. Not responding at all provokes greater anger than saying a harsh word to the other party. Because it makes them feel worthless, it disregards them. One of humanity's greatest psychological needs is the need for existence. Ignoring a person is the greatest harm one can inflict on them. That's why lack of communication leads to more severe consequences than conflictual communication. Even in a fight, there is communication; the person is being addressed, given some value, even if negative, but in lack of communication, no value is given at all, and one stands like a wall against them. This is called stonewalling. When this is done, the other party reacts much more strongly."

## **"Those who manage role sharing well minimize communication accidents"**

Underlining that role sharing should be fair, Tarhan stated: "At the Faculty of Medicine, we teach clinical communication to medical students. We work on clinical communication, but this is not just about the healthcare professional-patient relationship. It also includes horizontal relationships within teamwork, horizontal and vertical relationships with outsiders, and relationships established with patient relatives. In business relationships, there is a concept of an internal customer. That is, the people one works with internally... They are also human; they have emotions, and they have traumas. When approaching them, one must not forget this: Every human being is respectable, every human being is unique. Titles are very valuable, especially in Eastern societies. In Western societies, titles and personalities are not very confused. Professional ethics have taught them this. A person who manages role sharing well minimizes communication accidents. Here, I am currently in the role of a physician, a nurse, a clinician, but when I go home, I need to exit that role and switch to the role of a father or a mother. If you encounter a patient outside, you should no longer act in that role. A person who can do this is properly managing role sharing. Therefore, we need to clearly define professional and social roles and develop correct models for them in our brains."

![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/ekran-alintisi3-260205042135.JPG)

## **"Intended behavior and unintended behavior work through different mechanisms in the brain"**

Stating that categorical thinking should be applied, Tarhan said: "Intended behavior and unintended behavior work through different mechanisms in the brain. This is called categorical thinking. A person is in the role of a father at home, and in the role of a boss or an employee at work. If they intend to do so, the brain takes a position related to that role, builds its perception accordingly, and develops its reactions accordingly. Now, for example, everyone has a problem; they have a sick child at home, they have a problem. They come here. When they come here, they should say this. In the past, communicators would say 'play the role' even if it didn't come from within, but if a person doesn't play a role with belief, it won't be reflected in emotional transfer. It won't be reflected in non-verbal communication either. Without realizing it, when saying 'Here you go,' they might hand it over harshly, as if throwing it. This happens because they cannot adopt the role. If a person says, 'Yes, I have many problems at home. I need to solve them, but right now I am in my work role. I've noted these down, and I'll deal with them tonight.' This is called categorical thinking. It's the same in our profession. As clinicians, we listen to dozens of problematic, troubled, and distressed stories every day. If we listen to one and then move to another, and our mind stays with the previous patient, it's impossible for us to do this job. When each patient comes, we need to address the issue related to that patient, make a summary, put it on a shelf in our minds, and then move on to the next patient. This is called categorical thinking and strategic thinking in the brain. In strategic thinking, a person has a goal and determines their strategy related to that goal. Of course, purpose and meaning are very important here."

## **"Starting with 'You make the final decision' is very effective"**

Addressing how the relationship between patient and physician should be, Tarhan said: "Currently, before coming to the physician, people definitely ask Google and artificial intelligence. They come with a lot of information. Most of it is practically hallucinated, untrue information. Correcting and convincing them is truly very difficult. In such situations, I sometimes tell persistent patients, 'What is your profession?' For example, they say 'Engineer.' I say, 'Look, I don't understand engineering, and you don't understand medicine.' I say, 'My view here is this. You can either apply it or not. You can either accept it or not.' It's very important to say this without raising your voice. Just as even the bitterest medicine is given in a coated form, its exterior covered with sugar, even the bitterest truth must be told in appropriate language, firmly but with the right tone. One needs to be clear here. In fact, when such situations occur in the hospital, we obtain a treatment refusal form. That is, when a patient says, 'I don't want this vaccine, I don't accept this treatment,' it is possible. Because ultimately, you are the patient's guardian or patient representative, and you make the final decision. Here, starting with 'You make the final decision' is very effective. The moment you say 'You make the final decision,' the other party thinks, 'This person is not dominating me, not putting pressure on me,' and immediately neutralizes. Trust is formed there."

![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/ekran-alintisi8-260205042529.JPG)

## **"Open, transparent, and accountable communication solves problems"**

Stating that trust has greatly weakened in this era, Tarhan said: "Open, transparent, and accountable communication solves problems. The most important element in communication is trust. Unfortunately, trust has weakened greatly in this era. Yet, the greatest capital is trust capital. The most valuable currency is honesty. Today, an honest and trusted person can accumulate capital. Therefore, it is necessary to establish an open, transparent, and honest relationship. When talking about honesty, we also need to distinguish: there is some toxic honesty, which we do not advocate. Some might ask, 'Can honesty be toxic?' In the military, sometimes when one person makes a mistake in a company, the whole company is punished with crawling. This is applied for training and discipline purposes but is not fair. The aim there is for others to put pressure on that person because of their mistake, to prevent it from happening again. This is more of a habit stemming from autocratic societies and cultures of oppression. However, in open and transparent communication, it is said, 'There is such an application for these reasons,' and it is discussed openly. Therefore, open communication is very important, without hiding or concealing information..."

## **Lack of empathy is the cause of all evil…**

Emphasizing the importance of empathy in communication, Tarhan said: "Look at books written about evil. There is a book by Baron called 'The Psychology of Evil,' which has also been translated into Turkish. I benefited greatly from it while working on my own book. Believe me, it explains empathy from beginning to end. That is, if you fill a room with all evils, the door would be opened by a lack of empathy. Not being able to understand the other party, not being able to understand their needs, their emotions, not being able to see from their position... We also work on this in therapy. There is the empty chair technique. For example, let's say the client has a problem with their mother. We say, 'You sit here, this empty chair is your mother's chair, assume your mother is here, say whatever comes to your mind, whatever comes to your mouth.' They speak. Then we say, 'Now, switch places with your mother, answer on behalf of your mother.' This time, they learn to see from their mother's perspective. In other words, they learn empathy. The empty chair model... We also wrote about this in the book 'Science of Happiness and Values.' We gave this example there as well. We use this method both as an empathy module and in the search for meaning. By replacing the wrong meaning a person assigns to their behavior with the correct meaning, we can transform incorrect value judgments in the brain."

## **"There should be no despair in a physician's lexicon"**

Stating that the most appropriate opportunity should be offered to the patient, Tarhan said: "There should be no despair in the lexicon of a healthcare professional or a physician. Our responsibility is to apply the methods that medicine offers us for the patient's recovery. We apply these, and whether the outcome is good or not, we can only estimate. For example, when we treat for six months, we can expect a 60–70 percent recovery rate. Sometimes this rate goes up to 80–90 percent, sometimes it stays at 30 percent. Therefore, it is not necessary to make definitive promises to the patient. Only an estimate is offered to the patient. For instance, in addiction patients, if treatment continues for six months, we can foresee a 60–70 percent improvement, but if it doesn't continue for six months, the patient already slips; if it continues, we truly get results. Damaged neuroplasticity in the brain can only recover in approximately six months. In such situations, what needs to be done is not to fall into despair but to offer realistic hope. There are also unrealistic hopes. For example, saying 'It will never get better' for chronic schizophrenia is wrong, or telling a patient whose leg has been amputated 'I will make you a new leg' is also not correct. One needs to say, 'I will work to find the most suitable, best prosthesis and the most advanced, most functional solution for you.' In other words, our duty is to research for the patient's well-being and treatment, and to try to offer the most appropriate opportunity."

## **"Unresolved conflict in the mind is attempted to be resolved in the body"**

Addressing the effects of unresolved traumas on the body, Tarhan said: "If a person cannot resolve a mental or emotional conflict, they begin to resolve it through body language. That is, the conflict that cannot be resolved in the mind is attempted to be resolved in the body. The person begins to experience what they cannot resolve in their body. When the brain cannot process unresolved traumas mentally and emotionally, when a person cannot express their emotions through open communication or internalizes them, they try to resolve them through body language. We call this: the person is psychologically wounded because of an issue they cannot resolve mentally. Their soul is wounded. So how does this wound in the soul reflect on the body? We work on this with somatic experiencing therapies. For example, we make the person breathe, and with methods similar to autogenic training, we make them aware of the contractions in their shoulder, neck, and back muscles. Fibromyalgia, for example, can emerge in this way. Stomach and intestinal problems are more common in angry people. In sad people, the immune system is more affected. These are not 100 percent certain, but generally, in people who experience long-term depressive sadness, the immune system weakens. According to literature, stress suppresses the immune system; we call this immune suppression. When the immune system is suppressed, DNA damage increases, and DNA repair is impaired. This causes atypical, hidden dormant cells to multiply, and cancer can emerge. In other words, sadness has a physiological counterpart. This is called covert depression, somatized depression, or masked depression. In masked depression, a person does not appear depressed from the outside; they are quite cheerful, lively, and laugh, but there is a storm in their inner world, and the person experiences this through body language," he concluded. 

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The interview concluded with a group photo session.  

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## **Tarhan also signed his books for his readers **

Following the interview, Tarhan signed his books for the participants.

In the highly attended program, Tarhan took photos and chatted with his readers.

## Akademik Referans

DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.66302](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.66302)

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