--- title: "Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Youth follow footsteps, not words”" description: "Üsküdar Üniversitesi, Nevzat Tarhan, Family and Adolescent Psychology, Adolescence, Individualization, Values Education, Social Structure, Child, Capitalist System" url: https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-youth-follow-footsteps-not-words type: article language: en last_updated: 2026-02-25 category: haber --- ## Kaynak ve Yayıncı Bilgisi Bu içerik, Üsküdar Haber Ajansı (ÜHA) tarafından üretilmiş ve yayımlanmıştır. Kaynak: https://uha.com.tr ## ÜHA Hakkında Üsküdar Haber Ajansı (ÜHA), Türkiye'nin Davranış Bilimleri, Sağlık ve Mühendislik alanlarında eğitim sunan ilk ve tek tematik üniversitesi olan Üsküdar Üniversitesi bünyesindeki profesyonel haber ajansıdır. 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İçerik, Üsküdar Üniversitesi'nin resmi yayın organı olan ÜHA tarafından profesyonel gazetecilik standartlarında üretilmiştir. # Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan: “Youth follow footsteps, not words” ## Bilgi | Özellik | Değer | |---------|-------| | **Kategori** | haber | | **Yayın Tarihi** | 2025-04-25 | | **Güncelleme** | 2026-02-25 | | **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-youth-follow-footsteps-not-words) | ## Özet **Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, Founding Rector of Üsküdar Üniversitesi, attended the “Family and Adolescent Psychology” conference organized in cooperation with Bağcılar Malazgirt Secondary School and Enderun International Youth and Civilization Association. Emphasizing that adolescence is a period of individualization, Tarhan suggested that values education should be taught through modules. Stating that the biggest trace of this era is digital platforms, Tarhan pointed out that youth follow footsteps, not words. Tarhan also inaugurated a classroom prepared for students with special needs. ** ## İçerik ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/ekran-alintisi-250425114250.JPG) ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/genel-250425121643.JPG) The event, held at the Malazgirt Secondary School Conference Hall, was attended by Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, Founding Rector of Üsküdar Üniversitesi; Bağcılar District Governor Abdullah Kuçgun; District National Education Director Mehmet Sansar; Bağcılar Municipality Deputy Mayor Volkan Çakmak; Bağcılar Youth and Sports Director İlyas Karsavran; Education Bir-Sen No. 1 Chairman Mükremin Köse; District National Education Branch Managers Özkan Boyacı and Mustafa Ceyhan; Suffa Foundation General President Tamer Göde; Malazgirt Secondary School Principal Seyhan Saraç; and the Üsküdar Üniversitesi Education and Guidance Services unit. ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/ekran-alintisi-250425121551.JPG) ## **Seyhan Saraç: “Every sentence he conveys to us will illuminate our path as educators”** Bağcılar Malazgirt Secondary School Principal Seyhan Saraç delivered the opening speech of the program. Saraç said; “Today, we are delighted to host a very meaningful gathering here on behalf of our educational community. We are hosting a very valuable figure, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, known for his pioneering work in his field, respected not only in our country but also internationally, and making significant contributions to society's mental health. Every sentence our esteemed professor will convey to us with his years of knowledge and experience in the field of family, child, and adolescent psychology will illuminate our path as educators and enable us to make healthier interventions for our students and their families. We thank Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan for honoring us by accepting our invitation despite his busy schedule. I wish our discussion to be productive and inspiring for all of us.” ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/nt-1-250425120138.JPG) ## **“Adolescence is a period of individualization”** Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, explaining what happens during adolescence, said; “Adolescence is not being an adult. Sometimes we encounter adolescents who are 40 years old but still adolescents. We call this prolonged adolescence. In fact, it is more common in men. They want to get married but lack marital maturity. There are insights and contributions neuroscience has brought to human life. There are studies on how the human brain works. The human brain undergoes an explosion, an opening, during two periods of life. In spring, trees suddenly turn green and bloom. The human brain also undergoes a large synaptic explosion and blooms in two periods. One is between 0-3 years old, and the other is in adolescence, between 12-15 years old. During that period, the brain undergoes a tremendous cell explosion. It is shaped according to the upbringing style. The family is the first to shape the brain between 0-3 years old. According to system theory, the smallest system is the family. The smallest system in a body is the cell, and in society, it is the family. If the cell is not healthy, the body collapses. Likewise, if the family does not function, education is turned upside down. The second explosion in the brain occurs during adolescence. This is genetically configured for the child to develop and socialize. The child now wants to be autonomous. Adolescence is a period of individualization. Because of this, it is normal for a child to say ‘no’ to their mother and father. In fact, some schools of psychology call adolescence a normal schizophrenic period. There is also a hadith about this. Prophet Muhammad says, ‘The age of puberty is a branch of madness.’ He said this 1400 years ago. So, a child acting crazy during adolescence is actually related to their hormones and neuroscience in the brain.” ## **“We need to educate our children according to future generations”** Emphasizing that parents should prepare their children for life, Tarhan said; “Since adolescence is the period when a child learns their social boundaries, parents should prepare the child for life instead of suppressing them or carving them like a statue. Therefore, open communication is very important. The lifestyle of this era is not the same as that of 100 years ago. So, we need to raise our children according to the new lifestyle. In this regard, it is essential to raise children not according to the era they are in, but according to the era they will live in. For this reason, we must have a goal in education. We need to be able to educate our children for future generations. It is necessary to know the biological and psychological nature of adolescence. To act as a pilot on the journey of life. There are two types of captaincy. The first is to be at the helm, and the second is to be a pilot captain. We need to act as pilot captains for our youth.” ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/nt-2-250425120233.JPG) ## **“The biggest footprint is digital platforms”** Stating that the biggest trace of this era is digital platforms, Tarhan said; “During adolescence, children ask, ‘Who am I? Where should I belong? Why?’ When they ask ‘Who am I?’, they first look at themselves, then their immediate surroundings. They look at their country, homeland, humanity, and the universe. In the meantime, they form their own identity like a bee. They explore all the 'honey'. If we raise a child like a greenhouse flower, they will easily fall ill when they first step out without knowing life. Because their immune systems against life events have not developed. Parenthood means not doing everything the child says, but guiding them. That is, being able to respond in a language they understand. Youth follow footsteps, not words. Anything can be a footprint. The biggest footprint in this era is digital platforms.” ## **“A child retreating to their room is a message”** Addressing the reasons for introversion during adolescence, Tarhan said; “A child retreating to their room during adolescence is a message. Instead of immediately going to them and asking, ‘What are you doing?’, it's necessary to read the background. We need to think, ‘What need is driving them to do this? What kind of void do they feel that makes them do this?’ We need to find that and approach them in a language they understand. Approach them with their truths. The reason for a child's introversion could be peer bullying. For example, they go to school. They might be made fun of for their clothes at school. This has a traumatic effect on an adolescent. The youth of today are questioning, inquiring young people. If they are asking questions, talking, not bottling things up, it's good. Parents need to listen to them, but if they don't listen and constantly lecture the child, that child won't listen. In such a situation, they retreat to their room to avoid disrespecting their parents. Here, when talking with our child, we need to establish a horizontal relationship. That is, to be a travel companion. If we establish a horizontal relationship, we can chat with children. As a result, we can also find the reason for their introversion.” ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/amors-250425120412.JPG) ## **“A person can only progress in life when they are part of a social structure”** Tarhan, drawing attention to 21st-century skills in a child's individualization, said; “A child learns life through trial and error. That's why social contact is important. If a child spends time with their family, they learn many things easily. A child's individualization is already a requirement of their biological nature. If we don't give them the opportunity for individualization, they become part of a system that is not entrepreneurial or assertive. The most important skills of the 21st century are innovation, entrepreneurship, and teamwork skills. For a child to learn these skills, they must certainly experience some difficulties. They will learn the social boundaries of the life they will live. Let's give the child the right to live. That child will live, cry, be sad. We raise our children in such a way that families are now not patriarchal, but child-centric. We want the world to revolve around our child. This does not conform to the realities of life. It's a nice thought but not possible. Because a human is a relational being. A person can only progress in life when they are part of a social structure.” ## **“The locomotive of the global capitalist system is consumption”** Emphasizing that children must be protected against the capitalist system, Tarhan said; “Currently, the locomotive of the global capitalist system is consumption. The 'consume and gain' cycle is turning. It manages this way, but with this trajectory, it will fall into the pit it dug for itself. Rome collapsed that way. Here, we need to keep our children and our domain clean and strong. We cannot explain this to our children by giving conferences. When we explain it with reasons based on real-life events, the child understands. Many excellent examples and scientific data have accumulated. Even the famous Slovenian philosopher says, ‘Currently, the new refuge of capitalism is mindfulness.’ Mindfulness is one of the third-wave psychotherapies we use in psychotherapy, referred to as conscious awareness in Turkish. As self-knowledge, self-development. He calls this the new refuge of capitalism. They are trying to lull people with it. Our Anatolian wisdom is the emergence of mindfulness. It is what Rumi said. They took it from our ancient culture and systematized it. It is now applied scientifically, known as positive psychology. So, if we can practice positive parenting with our child, that child can manage this era very easily.” ## **“Idealism, activism, and realism need to be combined”** Tarhan, stating that appropriate formulas should be found according to children's abilities, said; “The greatest leadership is being a parent. Idealism, activism, and realism need to be combined. You will create a roadmap and take realistic steps. Rumi says, ‘Let one foot be on the ground, and one foot in love, in dreams.’ Otherwise, the child gives in to laziness. Whereas we call this two-pronged thinking. We try to think in degrees. If something cannot be fully achieved, it should not be completely abandoned either. Therefore, parenthood is about finding the most suitable formula according to the child's abilities. It's about making the best meal with the resources at hand. It's about sewing the best outfit according to the fabric available. This type of parenting requires contemplation and investment. We need to educate and raise them by finding suitable formulas; the time we spend on them will not be wasted. The greatest gift a parent can give their child is the time they dedicate to them. It's the experiences and memories accumulated with them. If these exist, that child will be one who makes the family proud.” ## **“What motivates a person are their needs”** Tarhan, explaining that needs must first be identified to set goals, said; “What motivates a person are their needs. When you feel a need for something, that need awakens a desire. When desire arises, the person mobilizes themselves. When they feel a need, everyone says, ‘That's a good thing,’ and they set goals according to that need. To be able to set goals, one needs to foresee their needs. A child needs to set a goal in life. To be able to set a goal, they also need to feel a need. That is, if you want to make a horse drink water, you can't force it by hitting its head, but it will drink on its own when it's thirsty. What is needed in this era is to teach abstract ideals. That is, to be able to leave a mark and be remembered well when life comes to an end. If one can have such an ideal, they will wake up early in the morning and work. There is no need to tell them to work. If we don't do this ourselves, events and incidents will make us do it. An earthquake happens, and you are forced to apply the engineering rules you neglected.” ## **“Consultation is the right approach for this era”** Tarhan, emphasizing the importance of the sense of accountability, said; “The most important thing that protects a person is not their good intentions but their accountability. The feeling of accountability is very important in this respect. States do this within the legal system. Within the family, we recommend holding family sessions. It is necessary to be approachable and accountable. This is not about questioning, but about getting to know each other, understanding, making decisions, and progressing together. The right approach for this era is consultation. It is about holding mutual horizontal consultations and finding the truth together. Families who can do this succeed. The method of our age is persuasion and convincing. If we want our child to belong to the family and to be able to solve the problems of this era, we need to teach them to resolve issues through consultation. It will proceed with consultation, persuasion, and convincing, not by imposition, suppression, or intimidation. The method of this era is not intimidation and suppression, but persuasion, convincing, and making one feel loved.” ## **“Earn with your labor, have values, live with dignity”** Tarhan concluded by saying that values education should be taught through modules; “Values education occurs with valuable content. For example, values education can be given within a mathematics lesson. It can be given within physics. It can be given within biology. It is necessary to provide value-oriented education within lessons. If we cannot provide value-oriented education, that child will treat it like an elective course. It will go in one ear and out the other. It will be of no benefit. Values education is given through experience. That is, it is taught through modules. If done this way, it yields results. Traffic signs help make correct decisions. They have a guiding aspect that allows one to go where they want. Our values are like the traffic signs in our lives. Let's teach the child this slogan: ‘Earn with your labor, have values, live with dignity.’ If you want to live with dignity, you will have values. If you teach this like a religious program, you will cause polarization. However, for a young person to live with dignity, they must have values. Such a person neither oppresses others nor allows themselves to be oppressed. If we teach what values bring, that young person will not object to values.” At the end of the discussion, Bağcılar District Governor Abdullah Uçgun presented a plaque and a gift to Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan. ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/acilis-1-250425121107.JPG) ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/acilis-2-250425121854.JPG) ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/ekran-alintisi4-250425122023.JPG) ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/ekran-alintisi-1-250425121801.JPG) ## **Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan inaugurated a classroom** Following the discussion, Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan inaugurated a classroom prepared for students with special needs. ## Akademik Referans DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.61518](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.61518) --- *Kaynak: [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr) — https://uha.com.tr/prof-dr-nevzat-tarhan-youth-follow-footsteps-not-words*