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title: "Prof. Nevzat Tarhan: “An Education System That Does Not Provide Character Education Is Committing Suicide”"
description: "Üsküdar University, Nevzat Tarhan, İlim Yayma Cemiyeti, Düzce Branch, Love, Discipline, Compassion in Child Rearing, Character Education, Family, Trust Zone"
url: https://uha.com.tr/prof-nevzat-tarhan-an-education-system-that-does-not-provide-character-education-is-committing-suicide
type: article
language: en
last_updated: 2026-10-09
category: haber
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# Prof. Nevzat Tarhan: “An education system that does not provide character education is committing suicide”

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2026-10-09 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-10-09 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-nevzat-tarhan-an-education-system-that-does-not-provide-character-education-is-committing-suicide) |

## Özet

**President of Üsküdar University, Psychiatrist Prof. Nevzat Tarhan, attended the talk organized by the İlim Yayma Cemiyeti Düzce Branch. Emphasizing the balance of love, discipline, and compassion in child rearing, Tarhan stated that an education system that neglects character education is committing suicide. Tarhan warned: ‘We must create a trust zone within the family and modernize while preserving our own cultural values!’**

## İçerik

![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-10-09-162712-261009042723.png)



The moderation of the talk held at the Düzce Municipality Prof. Erol Güngör Culture Center was undertaken by Prof. Mehmet Emin Uludağ, Chairman of the İlim Yayma Cemiyeti Advisory Board. 



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-10-09-162656-261009042747.png)



## **Love and discipline should be given in balance!**



Prof. Nevzat Tarhan, emphasizing the implications of compassion and justice in child education, said: “The concepts of compassion and justice are two concepts we use frequently in child education. In a family, when parents raise a child, they must provide two things in balance: love and discipline. For example, if a child is raised with too much love and loose discipline, that child becomes spoiled. If real discipline is not established, the child cannot learn what is right and what is wrong. Because they don't learn, a narcissistic personality develops. The child lives as if everyone in the world owes them, as if the world revolves around them. Or, if the opposite were true, if there was little love and very strict discipline, the child becomes hostile towards the parents. Children who hate their mothers and fathers emerge this way. If both love and discipline are excessive, children become very perfectionistic. They become like robots but have low self-esteem. They become socially phobic and cannot say, ‘This is my opinion.’ They become very good second persons but cannot be leaders. If both love and discipline are low, children become antisocial. They grow up without love, experiencing a craving for love, insatiable, and at the same time cannot distinguish between good and bad. They lack such feelings of compassion and conscience. This is essentially love and discipline. Its equivalent in society is compassion and justice. The normal form of this is discipline that contains love.”



## **“Humans are the only beings who perceive the past and the future”**



Tarhan, touching upon the characteristics that distinguish humans from other living beings, said: “For example, the gene for seeking meaning, the gene for seeking freedom, overcoming loneliness, attachment – some of these also exist in animals. There are genes related to attachment and being social. Explaining death, perception of time... Humans are the only beings who perceive the past and the future. No non-human being says, ‘I experienced these things in the past, and it will be like this in the future.’ Only eating, drinking, reproduction, shelter. The genetic algorithm works this way. The codes and programs in the brain work this way, but not in humans. Humans want an eternal life, they want immortality. They want to add meaning to what they do. Humans have a novelty-seeking gene. There is a gene called DRD4, which is a risky behavior gene. It is also present in hyperactive individuals. Even if you eliminate all radicals in the world, new radicals will emerge in newborns. There are genes related to radicalism. Some people are radical in science, some in sports or mountaineering, for example, some in politics. We owe a lot to these radicals. Many discoveries happen because of them. Going to the laboratory and working day and night is normally madness. People with the risky behavior gene think outside the box, behave riskily, love novelty, and are open to new experiences. If they use it constructively, discoveries are made; if they use it destructively, they commit fraud.”



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-10-09-162638-261009042858.png)



## **“The most important quality that protects humans from evil is accountability”**



Tarhan, drawing attention to the importance of the feeling of accountability in human behavior, said: “Necip Fazıl says, ‘Is there a cure for death? That minaret knows.’ In other words, humans are beings who contemplate death. After death, there is accountability. The most important characteristic that protects humans from evil is accountability. That is, a student’s accountability, a mother’s, a father’s accountability to their conscience, and also accountability when one stands before the Creator after death… In developing introspection, there are currently Twelve-Step therapies in psychiatry, especially in addiction treatment. There is the Minnesota Model. One of the twelve steps there is to be part of a greater meaning. That is, there are things a person can control and things they cannot, things within their power and things beyond it. In such situations, when they feel helpless, they use the method of radical acceptance, saying, ‘There is a higher power that knows everything, controls everything; there is a higher value, a higher meaning, a Creator.’ They use the radical acceptance method, accept what they cannot change, and then draw a path, asking, ‘What did this teach me?’”



## **“An education system that does not provide character education is committing suicide”**



Tarhan, drawing attention to the changing measures of value in the modern world, said: “We call Islamic civilization a civilization of love; no, it is a civilization of compassion. Compassion is love with empathy. Because love loves, but it loves its own interest in it. For example, in America, a common reason for divorce is when a spouse gets sick, they say, ‘I only live once, I can't deal with a sick person,’ and leave their spouse. It started with love, but they love them for their own gain. They love their physical appearance. In fact, I read an interview with a Hollywood actress in America. They ask what a female artist’s nightmare in Hollywood is. She says, ‘Turning forty.’ They ask, ‘Why?’ She says, ‘We don't get applause like we used to.’ This means they get applause based on physical appearance. So, the applause from men there must also be fake applause. There is no appreciation or praise in it. They applaud because it appeals to their visual pleasure. They don't applaud because they value it. Modernism has changed our measure of worth. If you get a lot of applause, you are valuable; if you dress a certain way, you are valuable; if you live a luxurious life, you are valuable. This cannot be a measure of worth. The measure of worth is character. It is not physical appearance, not a luxury car, not a position, not fame. The measure of worth is character. In other words, a person is welcomed by their appearance but seen off by their personality. An education system that does not provide personality and character education is committing suicide.”



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-10-09-162702-261009042934.png)



## **“Sociologically, we had not completed our adolescence”**



Tarhan, also touching upon the effects of globalization on societies, said: “Currently, the world has accelerated so much under the influence of globalization. The West has its pros and cons. We should adopt its pros but avoid its cons. We need to choose to modernize while preserving our own culture. We made a big mistake there. For example, Japan chose to modernize while preserving its own culture. That's why it invested a lot of its energy in industry, in training engineers, and created a difference. We always spent our energy on people's appearance and clothing. Until recently, we were still concerned with people's attire or ethnic origin. Sociologically, we had not completed our adolescence, our identity period. We have only recently started to accept global truths.”



## **“It is easy to attribute it to an external cause…”**



Tarhan, also touching upon the relationship between humanism and narcissism, said: “Western values, humanism, emerged as a reaction to the church, which considered humans born sinful. In reaction, it said, ‘Humans are born sinless.’ It said, ‘Humans are inherently good.’ It said there is no evil within humans; evil comes to humans from outside. This inflated people's egos, making them narcissistic. It led to the emergence of people with big egos, saying, ‘I am good, I am perfect.’ Currently, a book titled ‘The Narcissism Epidemic’ has been published in America. Narcissistic personality disorder is rising geometrically, especially among young people. An important characteristic of narcissistic personality disorder is that one sees oneself as special, important, and superior. For example, in traffic, when you have an accident, they say, ‘Do you know who I am?’ That is a typical narcissist. For instance, people come to the hospital and say, ‘There's nothing wrong with me, my spouse is sick.’ Unfortunately, most men say this, but women have now also woken up. They are not falling for it anymore; they have started saying it too. In this way, people don't ask, ‘I wonder if X percent of this problem stems from me?’ It's easier to attribute it to an external cause.”



## **“We need to bring *Ilm al-Kalam *down to high school level”**



Tarhan, addressing how Ilm al-Kalam can be explained to today’s youth, said: “We need to bring Ilm al-Kalam down to high school level. Ilm al-Kalam is the branch of science that answers doubts about religion, existence, creation, death, and the afterlife. If Imam Ghazali were alive today, he would seek and explain ways to teach Ilm al-Kalam at a high school level. There are ways. Read the book of the universe. Quantum physics is currently leading us to Allah. When you examine the biology, nature, and DNA of an insect or a flower, you understand tawhid (oneness of God).”



## **“Some psychologists work like divorce therapists”**



Tarhan, stating that self-knowledge is an important step in the journey of inner discovery, said: “The reason for the increase in divorces is ego wars. Companies want to do conflict resolution. For conflict resolution, fair sharing is needed. Independent auditors investigate. It is necessary to teach justice in companies. It is necessary to teach empathy, and one must know how to respect others' rights. Otto Kernberg says, ‘There is a bad part within humans.’ This means psychology needs to make a revolution. A psychology that sees humans as perfect always attributes events to external causes and puts people into a false comfort by saying, ‘You are good, they are bad.’ Go to personal development courses, and they inflate the ego by saying, ‘You are good, others are flawed, there is no evil, there are bad outcomes. You are perfect.’ The person feels good, goes to work, doesn’t like anyone, goes home, starts criticizing their husband or wife, and marriages end. An obese person goes and loses weight, then starts disliking their husband, and the marriage ends. Some psychologists are currently working like divorce therapists. This is because they do not undertake a journey of inner discovery and self-knowledge.”



## **“Beautiful roses grow in quality marriages”**



Tarhan, drawing attention to the family being the fundamental building block of society, emphasized the importance of a trust zone for a healthy family environment. Tarhan said: “Beautiful roses grow in quality marriages. An ecosystem is needed to cultivate them. The smallest ecosystem of society is the family. Just as a cell is to the body, the family is to society. If the cell is healthy, the body is healthy. There must be a trust zone in the family. For the family to be like a shelter, everyone must come home running with trust. One should not feel afraid there. If you say, ‘My mother, my spouse will torment me, peck at me, make sarcastic remarks, gossip’… If the woman, entering the door, says, ‘I'm fed up with your children, you deal with them,’ and the man says, ‘What kind of woman are you, you have a sullen face,’ then that evening will be ruined. However, if the spouse came home feeling bad, and the house is messy, etc. If the man says, ‘I feel really bad when the house is messy, and your cheerful face when I come home truly comforts me,’ speaking in 'I' language, then the beauty within the other person will emerge. It is the same with children.”



## **“Encourage the child to ask questions”**



Tarhan, also touching upon the importance of questioning and objection in raising children, said: “Our children will question, they will object. A questioning, objecting child is respectable. Let them ask; one should be afraid of a child who does not ask questions. A questioning child is open to learning, open to self-improvement. If a child doesn't ask questions at home, it means the parents are not letting the child speak. Encourage the child to ask questions. In fact, a lady who won the Nobel Prize in mathematics was asked, ‘To whom do you owe your Nobel Prize?’ She said, ‘I owe it to my mother.’ Everyone was surprised. She said, ‘Everyone's mother asks their child, when they go to school, 'What did the teacher ask, and what did you answer?' My mother did the opposite; she would ask, 'What did you ask the teacher?' This leads to an amazing type who thinks outside the box and questions. A discoverer personality emerges. Our culture is the ‘Don't ask, don't think, obey’ culture. This culture is old; it might have worked 100 years ago, but now it's holding us back. ‘Question, think, and then obey.’ Obey if it makes sense to you. This culture appeals to authoritarian leaders, creating silence through fear, but it is not the method of this era and will eventually explode somewhere.”



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-10-09-162645-261009043026.png)



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/ekran-goruntusu-2026-10-09-162650-261009043000.png)

## Akademik Referans

DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.92684](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.92684)

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