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title: "Prof. Nevzat Tarhan: “Social and emotional development is as important as academic success”"
description: "President of Üsküdar University Prof. Nevzat Tarhan, Adalar National Education Directorate, Reflecting Values in Family Upbringing, Academy, Success"
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# Prof. Nevzat Tarhan: “Social and emotional development is as important as academic success”

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2026-04-09 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-04-09 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/prof-nevzat-tarhan-social-and-emotional-development-as-important-as-academic-success) |

## Özet

**President of Üsküdar University Psychiatrist Prof. Nevzat Tarhan met with education administrators working in Adalar at a talk organized in cooperation with the Istanbul Provincial Directorate of National Education, Adalar District Directorate of National Education, and Adalar District Governorship. Tarhan spoke under the title “Reflecting Values in Family Upbringing.” Tarhan highlighted the role of values such as virtue ethics, empathy, and compassion in sustaining the social structure, emphasizing that the current education approach, which focuses solely on academic success, is insufficient, and that social and emotional development is at least as important as academic success. Stating that artificial intelligence and digitalization must be managed correctly, Tarhan touched upon the role of parents in setting boundaries and transmitting values during childhood and adolescence, stating that spending quality time in family communication, setting healthy boundaries, and an empathetic approach are decisive in child development. **

## İçerik

![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/11-260409042642.png)

Adalar District Director of National Education Cüneyt Ergünenç, Adalar District Mufti Adem Özdemir, and many educators attended the program held at Büyükada 125th Anniversary Atatürk Secondary School Conference Hall. The talk, moderated by Canan Pehlivan, attracted great interest. 

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## **“Compassion has weakened today”**

Psychiatrist Prof. Nevzat Tarhan, referring to the importance of virtue ethics and empathetic communication; “If you ask Japan, ‘What is the most important value that sustains you?’ you will see that despite belonging to a nature-based belief system, social bonds are very strong. It is one of the rare cultures that can resist global popular culture compared to many countries in the world. At its core is education in respect, one of the values they attach the most importance to. Children are taught virtue and ethics from an early age. These virtuous values include social respect, respect for others, and empathetic communication. These values are the elements that sustain that society. For example, within respect there is a sense of shame, there is courtesy, a broader concept than respect for the other party, and within courtesy there is empathy. Respect can also be shown out of fear, but respect shown with the desire not to hurt the other party is courtesy. They have made this a culture. Respect is a very important value. In our culture, the feeling expressed as compassion, which is a part of empathy, has weakened today. However, within respect there is empathetic communication for others. The lack of empathy in human relationships becomes the root of all evil. In other words, the weakening of respect, compassion, and mercy are the values most eroded in culture and most disruptive to social communication.” he said.

## **“Academic success alone is not enough in professions”**

Tarhan stated that a two-parameter approach is not sufficient; “Our current education system actually proceeds similarly on a global scale; a success-centered education approach, usually US-focused, prevails. In this approach, there is an attitude like ‘If you are successful, you are valuable; if you are unsuccessful, you are worthless.’ If you do what is pleasing, it is considered right; unpleasing behaviors are considered wrong. This is also taught as a philosophy of life within the education system. In such a situation, the measure of worth changes. In our education system, in parental attitudes, and even among most educators, a two-parameter approach stands out. ‘Be smart, be hardworking.’ Being smart and hardworking is considered sufficient as the two conditions for success. Now, a child becomes smart and hardworking, you see them become a chemical engineer, but after graduating, they produce synthetic drugs. Smart, successful, but not a good person. They finish medical school, again smart and successful, but they can go and establish criminal organizations. This shows that in professions, academic success alone is not enough; social and emotional success is also required.” he said. 

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## **“Mevlâna is being systematized anew”**

Tarhan, mentioning that universal values are being explained with new methodology; “Currently, trauma-sensitive high schools are opening in the USA. These are called ‘Social Emotional Learning (SEL)’ high schools. In these schools, social-emotional learning is prioritized, teaching the integration of universal values into human behavior. When we look at the scientific basis of these universal values, studies developed by Howard Gardner in 1981 stand out. Later, platforms like VIA Character were also created. The character strengths inventory has now become a measurement tool used in therapies. This inventory contains 6 basic virtues and 24 values. Many of these values also exist in our Anatolian culture. They have been taken from thinkers like Mevlânâ Celâleddîn-i Rûmî and systematized anew under the name of universal values. In fact, they are doing this well: developing methodology, establishing a scientific basis, and integrating it into the education system. They have even started to spread this approach in high schools.” he said.

## **“We must not become slaves to algorithms”**

Tarhan stated that artificial intelligence should be a field where truth is sought; “Just as the printing press created a breakthrough in human history, artificial intelligence will create a similar transformation anew. Just as humanity changed before and after the printing press, artificial intelligence will change people and society in the same way. In fact, it offers an opportunity that will make human life easier, increasing learning and access to information. However, there is an important point to note here. We must not become slaves to algorithms. Artificial intelligence should be a field where we seek truth. If we become slaves to algorithms, if we become objects of artificial intelligence, especially in immature minds, artificial intelligence begins to assume a maternal role and directs the individual. However, artificial intelligence is not a conscious being, but merely an intelligent digital system. It does not possess consciousness. Today, the algorithms used in artificial intelligence systems are not entirely transparent. This situation is more pronounced in language model-based artificial intelligence. The intentions and guidance of those who develop these systems are of great importance. Social media and artificial intelligence systems operating with non-transparent algorithms have become a subject of debate and legal proceedings in many countries. Therefore, transparency is very critical. Otherwise, young people become vulnerable to the influence of these systems.” he said.

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## **“Parents should set healthy boundaries for their children”**

Tarhan, explaining the situations occurring in the brain between the ages of 0-3 and 12-15; “Screen use in children aged 0-3 is severely restricted and even banned, especially in Northern European countries. This is because this period is the most critical stage for brain development. So much so that children in this age group who are constantly exposed to screens can be observed acting as if they are swiping even in their sleep. This shows how quickly the brain adapts to the stimulus it is exposed to. The ages 0-3 and 12-15 are two critical periods where the brain undergoes the fastest change. Especially the age range of 12-15, which coincides with the onset of adolescence, is a period of increased neuroplasticity, where synaptic connections virtually explode. Just like flowers blooming suddenly in spring, there is very intense restructuring in the brain in a short time. During this process, unnecessary connections are pruned, and used pathways are strengthened. We call this behavioral pruning. During this period, an individual’s identity and personality development takes shape. Although the foundations of many areas such as social identity, cultural identity, ethnic identity, and sexual identity are laid in childhood, their final form is largely given within this age range. In this process, the first reference for the child is the parents. However, with adolescence, parents take a backseat, and the environment, especially the digital world, becomes more influential. The form of relationship established with the digital world often creates an effect similar to the relationship established with parents. Therefore, it is very important for parents to be able to set healthy boundaries for their children.” he said. 

## **“Basic values education is extremely important…”**

Tarhan stated that unexpected behaviors can be considered normal during adolescence; “Up to the age of 10–12, parents are critical decision-makers for the child. Because during this period, the child is still dependent on the parents. However, after entering adolescence, the peer group becomes more decisive. Therefore, the basic values education given by parents until pre-adolescence is extremely important. Despite this, children can make mistakes. Indeed, adolescence is sometimes referred to as a normal schizophrenic period in psychological literature. That is, it is actually considered normal for an adolescent to occasionally exhibit inconsistent, extreme, or unexpected behaviors. It is not realistic to expect the maturity of a 40-year-old person during this period. It might be pleasant, but it is not possible, and it is not even correct. Adolescents will make mistakes and learn through experience. The parents’ approach here is decisive. At this point, there is a beautiful saying, ‘Play with your children until they are 5, be their friend until they are 15, and consult with them after 15.’ The phrase ‘be their friend’ here does not mean establishing a casual relationship. It means being a companion on life’s journey. It means involving the child in the process. While a warmer, more protective, and guiding relationship is prioritized until the age of 5-6, a more sharing and horizontal relationship should be established in later years. This approach is an important educational philosophy that has been present in our belief system and culture for centuries.” he said.

## **“The relationship with digital must be rearranged”**

Tarhan, stating that various detoxes can be done to strengthen family ties; “When addressing the issue of setting boundaries for mobile phones, one must first consider whether the home is truly a safe space. This issue is three-pronged: parents, child, and if necessary, therapist/psychiatry support. There are things the youth needs to do, responsibilities parents need to undertake, and situations that may require expert support. Additionally, it should be evaluated whether the child has any clinical conditions in the school environment. For example, if there is childhood depression, the child often turns to the digital environment as a stress reduction method. They experience temporary relief by immersing themselves in games or screens. If this situation progresses, school refusal can be observed, and in some cases, a process leading to food refusal can emerge. The parents’ approach here is very important. Applying a digital detox in such situations within the family can be effective. Simple but effective methods can be used to rearrange the relationship with digital. For instance, when eating together, reserving a separate plate for phones at the table. Eating in an environment where everyone has a phone loses its social meaning. However, mealtime is a moment when the brain naturally releases dopamine, a time of warmth and high sharing. Especially if there is an enjoyable meal environment, these moments turn into an important opportunity for conversation, strengthening communication, and re-establishing family ties.” he said.

## **“The greatest gift to children is quality time spent together”**

Tarhan stated that a relationship with mutual interaction is healthy; “The human brain learns through experience. Therefore, our experiences and what we make children experience are sown as seeds in their souls more than what we say. For young children, the greatest gift a parent can give is quality time spent together. This time does not have to be very long; parents might be working. However, the quality of the relationship established when coming together is very important. A sincere, authentic, open, and honest communication… A horizontal relationship… That is, a relationship with mutual interaction, not just one person talking and the other listening. The child should ask questions. One should not be afraid of a questioning child. Because a questioning child is open to learning, wants to develop. They may ask incorrectly, or ask the wrong question, but what is important is that they ask. In this situation, just as the child should be open to criticism, parents should also be open to criticism. Young people especially want to criticize. This is also part of development. When communicating with a child, a comparative language should not be used. We should not expect a child to act like an adult because they are not yet an adult. They make mistakes, have faults, may speak incorrectly, but when valuing them, they should be valued like an adult. That is why even physical posture is important when communicating. Instead of standing and talking down to a child, one should bend down, come to their level, and speak. This strengthens both respect and healthy communication.” he concluded.

Following the talk, a gift was presented to Tarhan.

The program concluded with a group photo session. 

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## Akademik Referans

DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.88711](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.88711)

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