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title: "Taking Responsibility: The Greatest Investment in Oneself!"
description: "Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that the capacity to take responsibility constitutes a person's strength and leads them to success. Tarhan also noted that taking responsibility is the greatest investment a person makes in themselves."
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# Taking Responsibility: The Greatest Investment in Oneself!

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2023-05-15 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-03-02 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/taking-responsibility-the-greatest-investment-in-oneself) |

## Özet

**The sense of responsibility is a feeling that enables a person to adapt to life. It is a characteristic that should be instilled in a child through education from as early as one year old. Emphasizing the vital importance of taking responsibility in both relationships and professional life, Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that the capacity to take responsibility forms a person's strength and leads them to success. Tarhan also noted that taking responsibility is the greatest investment a person makes in themselves. **

## İçerik

![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/files/nevzat-tarhan-2-230515093908.JPG)

The sense of responsibility is defined as a feeling that enables people to adapt to life. The choices a person makes in life from an early age are one of the fundamental pillars forming their personality. Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that responsibility is an area of education that should be taught to a child after they start walking, adding, “As a person journeys through life, they can either move upwards or in the opposite direction with the responsibilities they undertake. A person has two types of responsibilities: those in relationships and social responsibilities. These responsibilities should be evaluated separately. A person's capacity to take responsibility also constitutes that person's strength. Just as high-reving cars go fast, a person's capacity to take responsibility leads them to success,” he said.

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan stated that irresponsibility in children stems from erroneous parental attitudes, adding the following:

## **A Child Who Takes Responsibility Feels Valuable**

“It is a responsibility for a child aged two to learn to eat their own food. They also enjoy it. As they approach 2-3 years old, they start to dress themselves in some clothes. It is important for them to try putting on their own shoes. As they grow, around 4 years old, they should be able to tidy their room and toys. A child who takes responsibility feels valuable. Self-confidence develops, and such children view life more positively, can take risks, can be the captain of their own ship, and can individualize. Conversely, individuals who do not take responsibility, or have little responsibility, are always complainers. They expect everything from others. Unconsciously, they exploit other people.”

## **Parents Neither Give Responsibility to the Child Nor Complain **

Tarhan stated that most irresponsibility stems from parental attitude mistakes made when the child is young, saying, “For instance, when a child is about to wash their hands, the mother says, ‘You can’t do it, let me wash your hands.’ The mother thinks the child will make mistakes or get water everywhere. However, in such situations, the mother should encourage the child by saying something like, ‘You can’t wash it well right now, but you will later.’ After a meal, she should give the child the opportunity to carry their own plate while clearing the table. When a child is raised by being given such responsibilities, their sense of responsibility develops. Parents neither give responsibility to the child nor complain, saying, ‘This child has become lazy and can’t do anything.’ Yet, without realizing it, we ourselves cause the very thing we complain about. By acting soft-hearted with feelings like ‘Oh, don’t be sad, don’t get hurt’ and not giving the child responsibility, we make them lazy, and that child struggles in life. Responsibilities at a young age are small, but as they grow older, they become bigger problems. A child who doesn't take responsibility has low self-confidence because they cannot do something that their other friends at school can do. These are attitude and educational mistakes,” he said. 

## **Professional Responsibility is as Important as Individual Responsibility **

Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan, stating that not taking responsibility also leads to problems in the professional field, said, “At the workplace, there are individuals with a high sense of responsibility. All tasks accumulate with them. People say, ‘He does it well, give it to him.’ Those who evade responsibility, however, sit idly and don’t do their work. Actually, being able to distinguish these is a management skill. If an irresponsible person can stay in their comfort zone and live an easy life, and if this attitude puts them at an advantage, then there is an injustice here. Professional responsibility is as important as individual responsibility. If a person does not fulfill their duties where they go, if they always delegate tasks to others, they should experience the natural consequences of this behavior.” Tarhan added, “Irresponsible people are not task-oriented; they try to please the boss. Distinguishing between those who have a sense of responsibility and those who do not is also managerial sagacity. Irresponsible individuals should not get away with it.”

## **High School Age is Too Late…**

Tarhan stated that it is pointless to complain about a child who has reached high school age, saying, “their room is a mess,” because “it’s too late… After children start walking, the first responsibility they should take is to let them eat their own food, even if they spill. It is very important to teach them to tidy their room, put things back in their place, and help with a pet if there is one. Parents should, at a younger age, tidy the room and prepare the school bag together with the child, then let the child do it while observing. If parents approach a child with appreciation and praise when they do good things, the child will do things. The praise of the mother and father are the greatest symbolic rewards for children and are more effective than buying them a gift,” he said.

## ** Let’s Praise Efforts, Not Personality**

Tarhan stated that a child’s good behaviors and efforts, not their personality, should be praised, saying, “If we praise good behaviors, the child’s behavioral patterns develop, and they try to do more of them. If we praise their personality, they say, ‘I am a valuable person anyway,’ and avoid responsibility. Therefore, when criticizing, let’s criticize wrong behaviors, not their personality. Being a role model for the child is also important. If parents share responsibilities at home, the child observes it. Children model actions and behaviors more than what is said. Various opportunities should be given, and the child’s choice as a result of that opportunity should be respected. For example, if a child has a toy they don’t want to share, parents should respect the child’s right. It is necessary to talk and explain like an adult, saying, ‘My child, this toy is yours, you have the right not to share your toy, but if you do share, you will make your friend happy, and they might give you another toy,’ but one should not expect adult behavior from them.” 

## **Heavy Discipline Teaches Submission**

Tarhan noted that in families with strict rules or heavy discipline, a child appears to learn to take responsibility, but in reality, learns submission, not responsibility, saying, “That child obeys out of fear and can do the exact opposite after adolescence. However, responsibility should come from intrinsic motivation, spontaneously, not extrinsic motivation. For this, they need to understand the importance of what they are doing, to make sense of it in their mind. If they know the reasons behind the responsibility they undertake, saying, ‘I’m doing this for this reason. This is important for this,’ the child gains intrinsic motivation. What we most often encounter in management is extrinsic motivation. You always get people to work by telling them; they don't act on their own. Managing such people is very difficult. They are lazy, indolent; for example, most industrial accidents occur because of these individuals. They neglect work, a fire breaks out. They leave a pothole on the road, a traffic accident occurs. Therefore, one must act with professional responsibility, considering the possibility of zero errors. The most important things in quality management at the workplace are correct informing about individuals’ responsibility, and secondly, having a tracking system. For this, there is a continuous feedback system,” he said. 

## **Feedback Develops Intrinsic Motivation**

Tarhan said the following regarding the importance of giving proper feedback to a child in the family: “For example, you gave the child the task of clearing the table, but the child didn’t do it. Instead of saying to the child while clearing the table, ‘Why didn’t you clear it, you’re sitting there lazily, while I’m working here,’ if you say, ‘I saw you didn’t help me clear the table, I’d like to understand why. Look, I got tired while clearing the table, and when I’m tired, I might not find time to play with you,’ the child will learn that the result of their action will also affect them, and they will face this negative consequence. When asked ‘Why,’ the child develops intrinsic motivation to explain and make sense of the reason with justifications. It is important for parents to be able to remind the child of this in an appropriate language in such situations.” 

## **Taking Responsibility is the Greatest Investment a Person Makes in Themselves **

Tarhan said that individuals with a sense of responsibility easily adapt wherever they go, are more at peace with themselves, and do not see responsibility as a burden: “Taking responsibility is the greatest investment a person makes in themselves. If a child learns to blame instead of taking responsibility, they blame the teacher when their grades are low. Blaming is unfortunately very common in Eastern societies, meaning attributing things to external causes instead of self-awareness and self-criticism, and blaming others instead of oneself, is frequent. To teach children responsibility, it is more important to let them experience the natural consequences of their own actions. When they don’t do something, let them experience the natural consequence; parents shouldn’t constantly compensate for them. Let them pay the price, break something, ruin something, lose their toy, but a small loss there prevents bigger losses in the future.” 

Üsküdar Üniversitesi Founding Rector, Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Nevzat Tarhan concluded his words with the following advice: “Taking responsibility is a bit of a burden, it’s arduous, but the results are beautiful.”

“The whole point is to instill in the child, who is given the right to responsibility, the feelings of ‘I have the right to choose, I am valued in this family.’ The greatest feature of this responsibility is to develop skills. Taking responsibility is a bit of a burden, it’s arduous, but the results are beautiful. This is similar to: you sow, you reap; this is arduous, but when harvest time comes, you get your yield. You work holistically, you get your grades, you relax. There are such responsibilities in life, and it is the same in personal development. For this, it is absolutely necessary to create opportunities. We will give the person rights; the person with the right to choose will face the facts and take responsibility, and will taste the joy of taking responsibility and succeeding through small successes. A child who takes responsibility and is happy with small successes will also take responsibility in bigger successes in the future. In such situations, it is also important for them to say, ‘my mom and dad are behind me.’”

## Akademik Referans

DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.12555](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.12555)

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