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title: "Why Do We Say, 'Where Are The Old Ramadans?'"
description: "President of Üsküdar University, Psychiatrist Prof. Nevzat Tarhan, discusses Ramadan and its effects on our spiritual world on SHOW TV's Şükran Kaymak'la Ramazan Sofrası."
url: https://uha.com.tr/why-do-we-say-where-are-the-old-ramadans
type: article
language: en
last_updated: 2026-03-22
category: haber
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# Why do we say, 'where are the old Ramadans?'

## Bilgi

| Özellik | Değer |
|---------|-------|
| **Kategori** | haber |
| **Yayın Tarihi** | 2026-03-19 |
| **Güncelleme** | 2026-03-22 |
| **Kaynak** | [Üsküdar Haber Ajansı](https://uha.com.tr/why-do-we-say-where-are-the-old-ramadans) |

## Özet

**President of Üsküdar University, Psychiatrist Prof. Nevzat Tarhan, was a guest on SHOW TV's 'Şükran Kaymak'la Ramazan Sofrası' program. Tarhan made striking remarks under the title 'Ramadan and Its Effects on Our Spiritual World'. Tarhan emphasized that the longing for 'Old Ramadans' is actually a longing for one's own childhood memories, stating that this period offers a compassionate atmosphere that strengthens family bonds and leaves positive impressions on children's minds. Tarhan also drew attention to the brain's power to program itself through conscious intention. **

## İçerik

## ![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/show-tv-260319104925.png)



## **“Old Ramadans are experiences from our childhood”**



Stating that love, compassion, and empathy come to the forefront during Ramadan, Psychiatrist Prof. Nevzat Tarhan said; “When we say ‘old Ramadans,’ we are unconsciously referring to the Ramadans of our own childhood. From a sociological perspective, this is an experience belonging to everyone's own childhood rather than simply old Ramadans. In our culture, Ramadan is a period in childhood that is lived more beautifully than other days, a time that one does not want to end. Children are centered, and a warmer atmosphere is created within the family. Love, compassion, and empathy come to the forefront even more. The warm atmosphere created by Ramadan reinforces this consciousness, leaving very positive effects on children. One of its most important advantages is that it strengthens family bonds and contributes to children accumulating beautiful memories, especially during their upbringing. Because childhood means accumulating memories. A child takes three things as an example: the mother, the father, and the relationship between them. Since relationships are more positive during Ramadan, the child records this in their mind, in their implicit memory. For this reason, individuals who accumulate beautiful memories during childhood actually remember the Ramadans of their own childhood when 'old Ramadan' is mentioned, and they feel that emotion, that longing, anew.”



## **“Fasting rates are still high despite popular culture”**



Tarhan stated that Ramadan strengthens family bonds; “Adolescence is completed at approximately 22 years of age. The period between 12-22 years is considered adolescence. The period up to 12 years of age is largely childhood and early adolescence. This adolescent period is a time when an individual searches for and finds their own identity. Questions such as ‘Who am I, where do I belong, why?’ are frequently asked during this period. This process is very important in childhood development. Especially for a child to receive positive experiences from their parents, to experience positive life events, and to store these in their memory is very valuable during childhood. Ramadan also stands out as a special period that strengthens family bonds at this point. Therefore, despite global cultural changes, and despite the strong influence of the global system and popular culture, statistics show that fasting rates are still high.”



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/show-tv2-260319105016.png)



## **“Intention must be sincere”**



Referring to the neuroscientific equivalent of intention, Tarhan said; “Intention is very important in Ramadan. The intention must be sincere. When it is, there is actually a neuroscientific equivalent to it. Studies have investigated how the brain works between intentional and unintentional behavior. There is intention in intentional behavior. You might intend to ‘teach my child this from here’ or decide to consciously perform an action. There are also unintentional, or automatic, behaviors. In such behaviors, the limbic system is more active. The person automatically applies what they have learned previously. However, in intentional behavior, the person learns new things and acts consciously. For example, if you intend to leave here and go to Taksim, even if you listen to the radio on the way, talk to someone, or even forget your destination for a moment, you unconsciously steer in that direction. Or, if you truly believe and intend to wake up at 4 AM, you might wake up before the alarm rings, but if your intention is 'I can get up or not,' then you will miss it. In other words, humans have the ability to program their own brains.”



## **“There are three types of anxious people…”**



Explaining the types of anxious people, Tarhan said; “There are three types of anxious people. Type A anxious individuals are hasty, impatient, and sometimes reckless. They might prolong a matter that could be thought through in a shorter time, or react with higher intensity to a minor event than it warrants. They overthink the past and future and find it difficult to focus on the present. They often act without calculating the outcome, do whatever first comes to mind, and may exhibit risky behaviors. A portion of this group is also more complaining. They stand out as individuals who complain frequently, experience intense emotional reactions, and virtually form relationships through these emotions.



Type B individuals, on the other hand, are individuals who act by thinking through problems, weighing options, and who can also be at peace with themselves. It is observed that these individuals are less prone to cardiovascular and gastrointestinal diseases compared to Type A, and their average life expectancy is longer. Furthermore, when looking at facial expressions, the direction of the lines formed around the eyes and lips also provides a clue. Lines that become more pronounced downwards indicate a more anxious disposition, while balanced lines upwards align more with Type B personality traits.



The third group consists of Type C individuals. These individuals are mostly carefree, indifferent, and often self-centered. They may sometimes exhibit narcissistic traits, believe that those around them have a responsibility towards them, and seek approval. They may appear calm and confident from the outside, but observations indicate that the average lifespan of this group can be shorter.”



![](https://cdn.uha.com.tr/content/images/show-tv4-260319105111.png)



## **“There are significant differences between personality disorder and personality trait”**



Drawing attention to the connection between personality traits and genetic background, Tarhan said; “There are conditions such as narcissistic personality disorder and obsessive personality disorder. However, there is a significant difference between a personality disorder and a personality trait. We all have personality tendencies. Some of us may have obsessive, some borderline, some narcissistic, some dependent, or passive-aggressive traits. This situation is partly related to our genetic background, and we may have such tendencies to approximately 30-40 percent. The rest is shaped by learning and experiences. When a thought or information comes to the brain, if we add emotion to that thought and accept it, it's like pressing the enter key. The brain records this and over time turns it into a fixed belief. Subsequently, this belief transforms into behavioral patterns. If this process continues for approximately 6 weeks, it becomes a habit; if it lasts for 6 months, it becomes a part of one's personality.”



## **“Change begins with awareness”    **



Stating that the 'I-language' should be used instead of the 'you-language' in communication, Tarhan said; “If a person does not have a personality disorder, they can learn and develop anxiety management. However, if there is a personality disorder, change usually begins during a crisis. For example, when a disaster occurs, or when there is a risk of losing a loved one or something valued, the person tends to question themselves. For instance, a person might consistently treat their spouse negatively, even mistreat them at times, but still love them. When the spouse sets a clear boundary, saying, ‘If this continues, I cannot sustain this marriage,’ and the person genuinely realizes the possibility of loss, then they stop and begin to question themselves. Change often begins with this awareness. In such situations, the language of communication is also very important. When 'you-language' is used, the other party feels judged and becomes defensive. In contrast, when 'I-language' is used, the other party experiences a feeling of understanding and a desire to help, rather than defensiveness. This approach contributes to solving many problems more easily. Therefore, managing relationships is not difficult when these communication methods are used with well-intentioned individuals. However, if there is ill intention, meaning if there is a damaging attitude at the core of the relationship, then relationships can eventually reach a breaking point.”



## **“Postponing instead of immediate reaction…”**



Explaining how anger should be managed, Tarhan said; “It is necessary to speak sweetly not only while eating sweets but also while making them. It is possible to manage anger with such a sweet approach. The way to manage stress also involves adopting the same approach. Both anger and stress are natural emotions. They are biological characteristics that are genetically present in all of us. Therefore, when a person gets angry, this situation can be seen as a warning sign that their psychological balance and inner harmony are disturbed. In such a situation, if a person can ask themselves, ‘Which of my principles has been damaged, which of my rules has been violated, which of my values has been harmed?’, they can manage their anger more easily. However, this is a skill acquired later. It is not learned from childhood. People get most angry when they are blocked. This feeling rises when something they want doesn't happen or when they feel they have been wronged. If the person can think solution-oriented at that moment, they can control their stress and anger and develop a healthy reaction. However, when anger rises, the brain's limbic system becomes heavily involved. At this point, the person needs to apply the principle of ‘Stop, think, re-evaluate.’ For example, even small interventions like standing up if sitting, changing environment, or washing one's face can be effective. In fact, one of the most effective ways to cope with anger is to postpone reacting immediately to the situation that causes anger for a short period.”



## **“New connections form in people who keep their minds active”**



Emphasizing the importance of balanced and conscious nutrition for brain health, Tarhan said; “Nutrition is very important. Especially for those who want to get omega-3, it is beneficial to turn to natural sources instead of just supplements. For example, walnuts are a good alternative in this regard. The brain constantly needs energy. It produces new cells and forms new connections. We have the hippocampus region in our brain. This is an important center where stem cell production occurs. However, for this to be active, a person needs to use and challenge their brain. In people who keep their minds active, new connections form, and new pathways are virtually opened within the brain. This situation can be likened to a city. If there is life and movement in a city, the roads are open and lively, but in unused areas, roads eventually close over time. The brain is similar; it develops as it works and weakens if unused. Therefore, the ‘Use it or lose it’ rule also applies to the brain. Of course, appropriate fuel is also needed for this. Nutrition is critically important at this point. Although the brain constitutes approximately 2% of body weight, it uses about 20-25% of the oxygen and glucose consumed. Even a small drop in the oxygen level in the air can significantly affect brain functions. Similarly, when blood sugar drops, the brain is the first organ affected. Therefore, balanced and conscious nutrition is of great importance for brain health.”



[Video](https://www.youtube.com/embed/1L_aadmKMrc)

## Akademik Referans

DOI: [https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.88128](https://doi.org/10.32739/uha.id.88128)

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